Chris Rock is 100% correct. When you’re single, women don’t give a damn. They seem more interested in becoming friends than date. The moment they realize you have a girlfriend, their attitude changes completely, suddenly women you thought weren’t interested become interested. It’s a logic I’ve never completely understood, but it makes me want to create a shirt for single guys that says, “I’m taken! Come date me!”
In the past few weeks, I can’t help the feeling that I’m living Chris Rock’s joke. I’ve been hit on at bars, on the train and several women have done a complete 180 after failed dating attempts. I was shocked most recently by a series of comments from a woman that made a few things clear: she was interested in me in the past and now that I’m taken, she’s jealous. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Since I’ve started as SCG, I’ve met a few women who have made me smile. Every time I receive a message from them, a bit of bliss flows through my body. These are usually the women who I end up getting to know on a personal level, and often cross the panes of anonymity to actual names. Recently I’ve been thinking about these handful of women, and realize that in my life, before this blog, there’s been several others. I’ve also realized I’ve never dated any of them, and even stopped the potential for such things. 
The adage “nice guys finish last” is more of an excuse for those nice guys who haven’t figured out how to attract women. While it may be true that nice guys don’t get as much attention as the bad-boy type, it’s because the nice guys hinder their own chances. I’m talking from experience here. During a recent trip, I’ve discovered a few ways nice guys can get the attention of A List women at bars and clubs while maintaining the status as a nice guy. 
