Valentine’s Day is one of the most loved and hated days in the year. While it’s an opportunity for couples to express their like (or love) for one another, many people despise the day and the idea. I’ve never hated Valentine’s Day, because I feel you don’t have to be with someone to enjoy the day. Hell, there are plenty of ways to survive Valentine’s Day by remaining completely single.

To begin surviving Valentine’s Day, you must not be bitter. Valentine’s Day is like any other day. Say for instance, your friends wedding anniversary happens to be on the 8th of April. Are you going to be bitter to your friend because they are going to celebrate their anniversary every year on the same day? Taken Valentine’s Day in the same light, some people are going to celebrate it with their significant other. Instead of being bitter, aim for a day that you’re doing the same thing with someone you like.

Valentine’s Day brings out many opportunities. For singles, there’s plenty of anti-Valentine’s Day events and festivities to attend. Check out the New York Magazine’s list of Anti-Valentine’s Day events. Who knows, you may meet another single person who you’ll share V-Day with next year?

Try hanging out with your other single friends. I’ve often found myself having brunch or a lunch with my dearest single friends. Oddly, I usually end up with those who are the most important in my life. In some way, they end up as my Valentine’s, just without the sex and kissing. If you care about your close friends, why not use today as way to show them how much you care. Spend some time with them, even if it is just for drinks.

Lastly, make it your day. Go out to a movie, enjoy a walk, do something that you want to do today. If all else fails, the best thing to do on Valentine’s Day, when your single, is to love yourself.

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