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Women often ask their male friends, “Why do guys love [insert sexual activity here] when it comes to the bedroom?” The response we give women range from “I don’t know we just do, why do you love shoes?” to a blank stare as if you were a Martian from a different planet. The fact is, there are some facts as to the way we think about sex. You don’t have to understand them, you just have to know them. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Sex, like anything else, is about experimentation, where much of it happens with another body, or thru watching porn. However, in an age where there’s enough STDs to turn anyone celibate, and increasingly unrealistic porn; alternatives must exist that provide the same experimentation without any of the risks. Enter the many virtual worlds, social networks, and IM clients that can be used for sexual exploration. Yes, we’re talking about cybersex. Cybersex provides the most of the mental exploration and can help improve your real life sexual experiences. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Fact: you’re replaceable in the bedroom. In the dating and relationship world, we all over think about sex. Elephants, monkeys and cockroaches all have sex, but I don’t see any elephant porn, monkeys on poles, or blogs about spicing your sex life in the cockroach motel. We analyze sex to the point that we forget a simple fact; we can easily be replaced! You’re skill between the sheets doesn’t secure your place in the bedroom. Regardless of your sexual talents, there’s always someone better, more detailed and willing to do things you may not have an interest.
Don’t get m wrong, sex is great, but it gets old. Especially when it is the basis of a relationship. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
I’m not the most experienced person when it comes to sex, I was a virgin until about 25. Since then, women weren’t lining up to get naked and show me the ropes. Every so often I would enjoy the company of a naked women between the sheets, but not often enough to call myself a sexual master, there was still much to learn.
When I was younger, my cousin explained to me that sex wasn’t a guaranteed orgasm. She once told me, “sometimes it happens early, late, right on time or not at all. But that’s okay!” This message was re-enforced by one of my best friends, who keeps reminding me that, “sex gets better each time you have it! Every time I have sex with my boyfriend, it gets better and better.” It wasn’t until recently, that I understand the point everyone was trying to make. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
We guys are often vexed by the female orgasm. It seems hard to find it, or to know if she’s having one. In reality, the female orgasm isn’t the moving target as we all believe it to be. It’s quite easy make a woman shiver while under the sheets than we’re led on to believe; we just have to stop thinking like men. Making us go crazy is quite easy, stroke us enough and we’ll shiver, shake and collapse in a pleasure coma. For women it’s a bit different, first you need to find her pleasure hot-zones, and second you need to integrate them while having sex. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Bad sex happens. Even those who claim to be “magicians” in bed, often jump over the basics that make sex wonderful. Bad sex isn’t an indicator of a bad woman, but some of the best lessons I’ve learned about women come from the many bad experiences between the sheets. That’s not to say you should sleep with a woman to determine if she’s the right one for you, but great relationships usually have great sex. There’s usually a sexual compatibility that exists with those you’re dated for a while and those you’ve wound up in relationships. I’ve found some trends with the women I’ve had horrible sexual experiences with. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
There’s a theory that only men go out to have sex. Yet in today’s modern, post-feminist world, I’m finding many examples where women tend to be the aggressor when it coes to seeking sex. I know women think about sex, as much if not more than men. What about seeking sex? I’ve often wondered if women seek one night stands, and how often? Enjoying them is quite a different question.
Simone Grant asked a very interesting question this week, “Could you enter into a long-term relationship with someone who didn’t satisfy you sexually? Could you marry that person?” I don’t have a clear cut yes or no answer. As I was beginning to explain my answer in the comments, I came across another blog post on the topic making me reevaluate the question. I feel this is more of an issue about settling and think of the question as “Are you settling if you remain in a relationship with unsatisfactory sex?” The answer is yes, but… only if both partners do not try to resolve the problem. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
We’re all not looking for booty calls and someone to keep the bed warm at night. The least we’re seeking is a person we can trust and have continued sexual relations. The key component here is trust, which means we must like you and have some commitment to you. Women should understand men have a very different relationship with sex than women. For us there’s less risk involved. If something goes wrong, we don’t have to deal with a nine-month pregnancy and possibly raising a kid for the next 18 years. That sort of risk women generally don’t take with some random guy or a person they really don’t know. It’s a hell of a risk! [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Before reading this post, read “When Did Women Start Accepting Less?” by Moxie. This is a great question and the answer is very complex. It begins with the fact that women began accepting less by turning down more! At some point, a change in the female dating mindset warped their procedures for finding the right guy. It’s a reason “The Game” was birthed, the reason many men feel its hard to attract women, and the reason dating is such a mine field. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
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