Posts Tagged Sex
Lessons I’ve Learned From Bad Sex
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating on January 27, 2010
Bad sex happens. Even those who claim to be “magicians” in bed, often jump over the basics that make sex wonderful. Bad sex isn’t an indicator of a bad woman, but some of the best lessons I’ve learned about women come from the many bad experiences between the sheets. That’s not to say you should sleep with a woman to determine if she’s the right one for you, but great relationships usually have great sex. There’s usually a sexual compatibility that exists with those you’re dated for a while and those you’ve wound up in relationships. I’ve found some trends with the women I’ve had horrible sexual experiences with. Read the rest of this entry »
Do Women Seek One Night Stands?
Posted by Single City Guy in Question for Women on January 24, 2010
There’s a theory that only men go out to have sex. Yet in today’s modern, post-feminist world, I’m finding many examples where women tend to be the aggressor when it coes to seeking sex. I know women think about sex, as much if not more than men. What about seeking sex? I’ve often wondered if women seek one night stands, and how often? Enjoying them is quite a different question.
When Is Bad Sex Settling in a Relationship?
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on November 28, 2009
Simone Grant asked a very interesting question this week, “Could you enter into a long-term relationship with someone who didn’t satisfy you sexually? Could you marry that person?” I don’t have a clear cut yes or no answer. As I was beginning to explain my answer in the comments, I came across another blog post on the topic making me reevaluate the question. I feel this is more of an issue about settling and think of the question as “Are you settling if you remain in a relationship with unsatisfactory sex?” The answer is yes, but… only if both partners do not try to resolve the problem. Read the rest of this entry »
Not All Men Are Looking for A Booty Call
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on October 21, 2009
We’re all not looking for booty calls and someone to keep the bed warm at night. The least we’re seeking is a person we can trust and have continued sexual relations. The key component here is trust, which means we must like you and have some commitment to you. Women should understand men have a very different relationship with sex than women. For us there’s less risk involved. If something goes wrong, we don’t have to deal with a nine-month pregnancy and possibly raising a kid for the next 18 years. That sort of risk women generally don’t take with some random guy or a person they really don’t know. It’s a hell of a risk! Read the rest of this entry »
When You Turned Down More
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on October 20, 2009
Before reading this post, read “When Did Women Start Accepting Less?” by Moxie. This is a great question and the answer is very complex. It begins with the fact that women began accepting less by turning down more! At some point, a change in the female dating mindset warped their procedures for finding the right guy. It’s a reason “The Game” was birthed, the reason many men feel its hard to attract women, and the reason dating is such a mine field. Read the rest of this entry »
Why Men Love Oral Sex
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on October 12, 2009
My female friends can’t quite understand why men love oral sex, even though some of them are more than willing to oblige. A few believe that it’s a male fantasy we want played out because we’ve watched way too much porn; some others believe it’s a part of foreplay and crucial to the entire sexual process; the rest think we’re being greedy. While each of these answers have some truth to them, it’s actually simpler than that; it’s a different feeling. Read the rest of this entry »
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