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If You Were Blind, What Would You Seek?

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Many people become frustrated when they can’t find their perfect match. The question I faced when I became frustrated was, what are you really seeking? One way to answer this question is, if you were blind what would you look for?

Some time ago, I was out with my friend, Laurie Davis (eFlirtExpert) for drinks and catching up. We discussed my dating travels and how I arrived at the point where I now have a girlfriend. We began to discuss my spell of frustration, where I choose to send messages to women and received little or no responses. The problem was, I choose women for the wrong qualities. I sought their looks and did not address the contents of their profile. She then asked the same question she asked me during my searches, “Why did you choose those women?” Honestly, I saw boobs, butts, and a cute face most of the time. In my searches, I forgot to choose personality. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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What Are You Really Looking For?

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I’ve pointed the limited and narrow dating requirements women tend to seek in potential dates. Men tend to be more liberal, when it comes to physical characteristics, we are picky in other ways. I’ve always thought I needed a woman who loved sports as much as I do, when in actuality I needed a woman who understood my love for sports. It was the quality of the person that had given me the success I have, instead of a check list of requirements. I’m not suggesting all requirements be discarded, I’m merely saying they aren’t the primary focus. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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