Dating is a humbling process. It made me realize that I had some work to do, and bruised my ego. While dating, the realization that improvements need to be made become realized: wardrobe updates, weight loss, attitude changes are all apart of the honest realizations. It’s also often realizes that everyone may not view us the same way we view them. The problem is we often rationalize our poor decisions and other criticisms; either they didn’t understand our sense of fashion; we’re big boned; people like my attitude because I’m “being real”; and that we are perfect regardless of what anyone says. Our ego, and sense of self importance becomes the ultimate hindrance, and contributes to our dating and life success, and failures. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
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Some Hard Truths About Dating

Some people are extremely dateable and others not so much. In between the two there’s plenty of grey to wade thru. I believe everyone has at least one person who’s right for them, regardless of their situation, condition, or sexuality. For those on one end of the spectrum, you may not have to do much to find a date, how ever on the other side, there’s plenty of work that must be done.
Everyone wants to date a sexy, hot, fit model. Unless you have the money, charm, wit, smarts and success, along with being just as hot, fit and sexy, your chances are slim. There are exceptions to the rules, and money, wit and charm doesn’t get you everything. Lets be honest, it gives you a great running start. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Maybe You're Not As Awesome As You Think

My father once told me, I should listen to my enemies more than my friends. While my friends may be honest, they often sugarcoat the truth and tolerate my absurdities. My enemies tend to often be direct and brutally honest in their critiques. He suggested their honesty may reflect a realities closer to the truth opposed to the way I would often think about myself. In a way, it allows honesty by looking at myself thru a different set of eyes. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]




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