Tips for Men
Published On: July 29th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 1 Comment
As I’ve mentioned last week, I’m on vacation. I don’t come back until Saturday, but I did want to share some advice when it comes to meeting important people in your dates life. The friends, and family of the person you’re dating are significant in her evaluation of you. Their opinion of you, will help shape her impression of you. Getting along with her friends and family, means being further integrated into her life, and being in her life for the long term.
Here’s some tips I’ve learned in how to come out unscathed when meeting important people in your dates life. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: How To, Meeting Friends, Meeting Parents, What To Talk About
Dating Topics
Published On: July 5th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 1 Comment
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Many women believe by showing up to a date, they are guaranteed a second date with the same person. However, showing up and having a conversation with your date, doesn’t guarantee a second date. If anything, you’re barely performing the minimum requirements for a date. Sitting across from a person and having a conversation doesn’t mean you’ve interacted. You’ve asked questions, he’s asked questions, and the date has turned into a job interview with food or drinks. You’re not leaving a memorable impression, instead you’re leaving a very sour and bland impression.
While getting to the first date is great, to guarantee a second or third date, you must make a memorable impression. Something that will separate you from the other women he’s dating. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Advice, How To, Memorable Dates
Single Life
Published On: April 7th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 3 Comments
The dating blogger community is very interesting and unique. There’s as much drama, backstabbing and gossiping as in any other niche community. Someone we can’t see outside of the bubble to realize that, this is really just that, a niche. It’s a part of our lives, but at times we all believe it to be our life. That’s when we make a very large mistake.
Dating isn’t the same thing as a relationship, which isn’t the same thing as marriage. These are all niches under a larger umbrella, lifestyle. While there are magazines dedicated to dating, there’s also magazines dedicated to sports, fishing, and interior decorticating. They are all facests of our life, but not our lives. They all make up a part of our lifestyle. At one time or another, they may take the dominant position. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Tips, Enjoy Life, How To, Thoughts About Being Single
Dating Topics
Published On: April 6th, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments
I’ve pointed the limited and narrow dating requirements women tend to seek in potential dates. Men tend to be more liberal, when it comes to physical characteristics, we are picky in other ways. I’ve always thought I needed a woman who loved sports as much as I do, when in actuality I needed a woman who understood my love for sports. It was the quality of the person that had given me the success I have, instead of a check list of requirements. I’m not suggesting all requirements be discarded, I’m merely saying they aren’t the primary focus. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Preferences, Dating Tips, How To, How to be a better dater, Quality vs. Quantity
Dating Topics
Published On: March 11th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 2 Comments
My father once told me, I should listen to my enemies more than my friends. While my friends may be honest, they often sugarcoat the truth and tolerate my absurdities. My enemies tend to often be direct and brutally honest in their critiques. He suggested their honesty may reflect a realities closer to the truth opposed to the way I would often think about myself. In a way, it allows honesty by looking at myself thru a different set of eyes. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Be Honest With Yourself, Determining Flaws, Fixing Dating Flaws, How To, Personal Evaluation
Tips for Men
Published On: March 10th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 4 Comments
There are millions of articles, websites, books and magazines dedicated to translating the hidden language of men. It’s not that we speak a hidden language, but we communicate differently than women. Generally we are seen as poor communicators, a fact I’m not inclined to dispute. Men are perceived as poor communicators because most of our communication relies on assumptions and actions instead of traditional verbalization. We speak, but don’t go into detail about every piece of our lives. The truth of the matter is we display our feelings differently than women, which causes plenty of confusion and frustration.
Women enjoy hearing our feelings and honest thoughts. The truth is more respectable than a lie or and more honorable than leading women to their own assumptions. A woman will often make assumptions based on our actions and their wants, regardless of they’re accurate. If we act as if we’re heading towards a long term relationship, when we’re just seeking sex, women will assume we’re working towards a long term relationship. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Advice, Dating Techniques, Effective Communication, How To, Understanding Women
Dating Topics
Published On: February 14th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 3 Comments
Valentine’s Day is one of the most loved and hated days in the year. While it’s an opportunity for couples to express their like (or love) for one another, many people despise the day and the idea. I’ve never hated Valentine’s Day, because I feel you don’t have to be with someone to enjoy the day. Hell, there are plenty of ways to survive Valentine’s Day by remaining completely single.
To begin surviving Valentine’s Day, you must not be bitter. Valentine’s Day is like any other day. Say for instance, your friends wedding anniversary happens to be on the 8th of April. Are you going to be bitter to your friend because they are going to celebrate their anniversary every year on the same day? Taken Valentine’s Day in the same light, some people are going to celebrate it with their significant other. Instead of being bitter, aim for a day that you’re doing the same thing with someone you like. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Anti-Valentine's Day, How To, Survive, Valentine's Day
Dating
Published On: January 4th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 2 Comments
Since I’ve started as SCG, I’ve met a few women who have made me smile. Every time I receive a message from them, a bit of bliss flows through my body. These are usually the women who I end up getting to know on a personal level, and often cross the panes of anonymity to actual names. Recently I’ve been thinking about these handful of women, and realize that in my life, before this blog, there’s been several others. I’ve also realized I’ve never dated any of them, and even stopped the potential for such things. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Tips, Finding Good Women, How To, Women
Tips for Men
Published On: November 22nd, 2009 by Single City Guy | No Comments
This post is a part of the weekly series “Tips For Men”, were specific female provided tips are provided by guest bloggers or questionnaires for men.
About a month ago, I asked women for tips on how we can perform better when it comes to oral sex. Between asking some of my dear friends to some of the reader responses, I have five common tips on ways we man can make the experience more enjoyable. Guys, pay attention and take notes, the better you please her orally, the more she will love you! [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: How To, Oral Sex, Understanding Women, Women
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