I’ve previously shared some truths I’ve learned from online and long-distance relationships. I’ve had plenty of experience with them. Throughout high school, I didn’t have many opportunities to meet girls, I went to an all boys catholic school. Instead, I was the Magic: The Gathering, LARPing, Vampire the Masquerade geek. My best option to meet girls was thru used chatroom’s and online websites. When I entered college, I began to branch out, beginning to form a non-geek social life. It was hard to leave the chatrooms and websites I’ve used to meet people and kept on returning to them when frustration surrounding my inability to meet women crept.

One woman had the most significant effect on my dating life to this day. Among my friends she’s known as Invisible Woman. This woman grabbed my attention at first type. Silly as that may sound, I can’t explain it any better than that. I was drawn to this woman like moth’s to the flame. Like a moth I was going to get burned. Read the rest of this entry »