Roughly a month ago, I had a sit down dinner with one of my best friends. While talking she mentioned she wasn’t excited about her boyfriend, the way she was when they first met.
“Do you still love him?” I asked.
“Yes!”
“Do you still care for him?”
“Yes!”
“Do you still want to be with him?”
“Yes!”
I suggested the reason her excitement has diminished is because he’s a part of her every day routine. It doesn’t mean there isn’t any excitement, but it’s not a shock that she has a boyfriend. The same happens with friends. When I meet a new friend I’m always excited to hang out with them and invite them to many activities. Overtime the excitement fades into normalcy, they’re a friend and a part of my life.
Three months into my relationship with Rule Breaker, the same feeling has come over me. I’m not excited about having a girlfriend anymore. With each passing day, I’ve become comfortable with the knowledge that I am in a relationship with a wonderful, attractive woman.
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