Dating
Published On: June 23rd, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments
Chris Rock is 100% correct. When you’re single, women don’t give a damn. They seem more interested in becoming friends than date. The moment they realize you have a girlfriend, their attitude changes completely, suddenly women you thought weren’t interested become interested. It’s a logic I’ve never completely understood, but it makes me want to create a shirt for single guys that says, “I’m taken! Come date me!”
In the past few weeks, I can’t help the feeling that I’m living Chris Rock’s joke. I’ve been hit on at bars, on the train and several women have done a complete 180 after failed dating attempts. I was shocked most recently by a series of comments from a woman that made a few things clear: she was interested in me in the past and now that I’m taken, she’s jealous. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Gripes, Women, Women Fighting For Men In Relationships
Single Life
Published On: April 9th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 8 Comments
Thru my perusing, I saw the new Sex And The City 2 trailer. I don’t have much of a history with the show, I’ve watched a few episodes, and never saw the movie. I don’t plan to watch the sequel either. I don’t hate the show, I think it’s well done and some of the actors I enjoy in other shows. However, I hate the message! I hate how it’s the staple for relationship advice for woman in New York City. It’s unrealistic view of relationships and dating does more harm then good. Sex And The City is up there with Cosmopolitan as bad influences for women who want destructive relationships and lives. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Gripes, Movie Trailer, Sex And The City 2, Thoughts
Dating Topics
Published On: April 8th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 2 Comments
The temperature in New York has risen to 80 and the summer like conditions means everyone moves from their winter outfits to spring and summer. When the temperature rises, it seems as if many women raid their closets of their sexiest club gear and wear it… during morning rush hour! There’s nothing wrong with a woman showing off her figure in the warm weather. There is something wrong when she gets offended when I look! [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Fashion Tips, Gripes, Summer Wear
Dating Topics
Published On: April 3rd, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments
I came across a new dating blog, with the idea that men don’t want to be friends with women. After reading the post, it sounded like a woman scorned; she was upset when men want to sleep with her and she doesn’t reciprocate, or when we think she’s romantically interested and we get upset when she doesn’t reciprocate. When I read these two scenarios, my only thought was “what is she doing wrong?” I’ve heard many, similar stories from women in the past. I believe this woman is acknowledging half-truths as excuses for covering her own flaws. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Frustrations, Gripes
Dating
Published On: March 24th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 2 Comments
We all have our moments where we question our dating successes and failures. They are usually just that, a series of events that lead to some success or failure. While my dating life, overall, is a mixture of successes and failures, during my the periods where women weren’t responding to me, I began to ask, “what’s wrong with me?” By asking this question, I was ignoring the successes I’ve had, the lessons learned to build upon. Maybe the real answer to the question has nothing to do with me, but with women.
We all pass up opportunities, especially when it comes to dating. I’m not going to suggest that every woman I’ve dated has missed out on their best opportunity by by not seeking a relationship with me. That would be egotistical. I would be ignoring the flaws I have and would suggest that I’m the best choice for every woman in the world. It’s not the truth. There is a possibility that I’m not the best fit for the women I’ve dated in the past.
However, I do believe that women are often seeking cookie cutter men, instead of men right for them. There is a difference. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Frustrations, Gripes, Personal Details
Dating Topics
Published On: March 19th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 2 Comments
When I started with Laurie Davis, she asked me who my cookie cutter woman was. What was she like? I rattled off a bit of superficial checklist items, she had to be tall, had to be into sports, and so on. My dream woman was the love child of Angelina Jolie, Megan Fox, Brooklyn Decker and Lucy Lu. This woman exists in two places, my dreams and fantasies. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Advice, Dating Mistakes, Dating Preferences, Gripes
Dating Topics
Published On: March 9th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 8 Comments
There are common themes that emerge when I read many other dating blogs, women taking their hostility out on men. We’re often reminded why men are jerks, horrible assholes, and why a guy isn’t suited for female standards. This stems from the perceived notion that women aren’t finding their perfect guy, and slamming men for the bad decisions in men they date. This is an ultimate sign of disrespect, almost as if women don’t think a good, valuable guy exists for them. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Gripes, Respect Men, Understanding Men
Dating Topics
Published On: March 8th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 15 Comments
“Well she’s got a hotty body, but her attitude is potty/When I met her at a party she was hardly acting naughty/I said “Shorty, would you call me?”/She said “Pardon me, are you ballin’?”/I said “Darling, you sound like a prostitute pausing”/Oh so you’re one them freaks, get geeked at the sight of an ATM receipt” – OutKast – Roses
Entitled women are the worst type of women in the world to date. An entitled woman believes men should always prove their worth. They feel men should always pay for a date, call within the first two days, meet their beck and call, be a certain height, and always ask them out. Some entitlements are warranted, but most aren’t, and some go to extremes, such as gold diggers.
Entitled women often believe that men owe them something for their time. They are the pretty, pretty, princesses who should have everything given to them. Not only are these women kidding themselves, they are the worst kind of woman to date! [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: #NoOffense, Entitled Women, Gripes, Understanding Men
Dating Topics
Published On: February 5th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 4 Comments
Aaliyah is right, “Age Ain’t Nothing But A Number.” There’s absolutely nothing wrong with the current cougar or a manther trends, what confuses me are the younger women who often seek older men. There are several attractive friends I have, who enjoy dating “Silver Foxes” or prefer to be the younger 20 something in a relationship. This is paired with the fact that “women mature faster than men”. Fast enough for there to be a 20 year age gap between the two? I think not.
I don’t understand this trend, and almost believe it’s an excuse for unsuccessful women dating in their own age group. I’m not going to complain about woman who’s dating significantly older man. I’m complaining about the women who only seek to date older men and use the maturity excuse as a crutch. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Dating Age Differences, Dating Frustrations, Gripes, Older Men, Younger Women
Dating
Published On: January 27th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 3 Comments
Bad sex happens. Even those who claim to be “magicians” in bed, often jump over the basics that make sex wonderful. Bad sex isn’t an indicator of a bad woman, but some of the best lessons I’ve learned about women come from the many bad experiences between the sheets. That’s not to say you should sleep with a woman to determine if she’s the right one for you, but great relationships usually have great sex. There’s usually a sexual compatibility that exists with those you’re dated for a while and those you’ve wound up in relationships. I’ve found some trends with the women I’ve had horrible sexual experiences with. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Bad sed, Gripes, Sex, Understanding Women
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