My first OkCupid date was with an upstate 24 year old woman who loved to party and enjoys sports. This may sound like a recipe for a bimbo on paper, she’s actually a very smart and interesting personality. Look wise I wasn’t to excited, she’s a tall girl (which I love) but has a few extra in areas that are unflattering and don’t scream “take me, I’m tall and sexy!” Her personality and attitude bump bumped her from being some average C lister to a possible B (outside of the sports and partying.) Although I wasn’t thrilled it was enough to warrant a date.

The date was fairly average. I was following every first date rule (1 beer, an hour and a-half max), but we were getting along very well it warranted a 2nd beer and an extra half hour. Talking with her was fairly easy, and she had some very interesting stories, but seeing her in person I wasn’t completely attracted to her. I’m very unsure about Ex-Party Girl, I’m not even sure that’s the best way to describe her. She’s a bit complex, has an attitude, and while there wasn’t any super exciting moment, there were several interesting points enough to warrant a second date.

I think, she’s falling into the friend zone, but I’m very unsure.