Dating
Published On: June 15th, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments
I don’t remember when this happened, but I had finished reading The Game and was ready to put what I’ve learned into practice. I’ve been clubbing frequently, and figure it would be a perfect chance to see if what I’ve learned actually works. I often when with friends to Crobar, (now M2 Ultra Lounge). Often, my friends would end up with someone at the end of the night and I would be heading home alone. Tonight I hoped to change this trend.
I was nervous but confident. My uncertainty about my probably for success didn’t hinder my eagerness to try. Determined, I approached women throughout the night with a vigor I hadn’t had in the past. Some advances worked, others did not, but I was never undeterred to try again. In the end, I thought, it was all practice. However, in reality, I wanted to end up with a woman, naked. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Club Life, Dating Stories, The Club Girl, The Game
Dating Topics
Published On: April 17th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 2 Comments
If you’ve ever watched Hitch (or the trailer), he says, “Women equate dancing to sex.” There may be some truth here, but I would like to make a broader point. If you don’t know what you’re doing, you will embarrass yourself at the club, in front of many people. Good luck on surviving the night after embarrassing of yourself. Dancing like a fool will lower your chances of meeting someone, or even having someone approach you in a club setting. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Club Life, Dancing, Dating Tips
Dating Topics
Published On: April 16th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 3 Comments
“The person you’re going to marry isn’t at the club,” a friend once told me. It was a message I was often reminded by friends and my experiences during my days of frequent clubbing. While I agree with the statement, exceptions to the rule exist. I have a dear friend who I often club with, who has found several quality people while out partying. I also believe she’s a quality person herself.
Outside of the exceptions, the statement my friend told me is true, very rarely are you going to find a quality date at the club. However, as guys, we often aren’t reminded or told to recognize this fact. We always believe there’s a quality person at the club just for us. I’ve seen many men fall heads of heels for a woman on the dance floor, only to get their hearts ripped out, or end up in very bad relationships. It’s not that quality women don’t go to clubs, but they aren’t the majority. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Club Life, Dating Tips, Where To Find Good Women
Dating Topics
Published On: April 15th, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments
While I’m fighting the sharp tingle of a hangover that pierces the back of my head, I’m reminded by a rule I’ve often broken at the club, overdoing it. There’s nothing wrong with going out and getting drunk, but there’s a limit, one many of us have passed in our adventures drinking. I’ve found ways to leave my limits waving to me on the horizon of “this is going to hurt in the morning” road many times. Getting buzzed or a bit drunk is okay, but no one loves a sloppy drunk. I’ve found that many sloppy drunk women are hit on my really creepy men, mainly because they are seen as vulnerable and an easy lay. I’ve also found many sloppy drunk men tend to me more aggressive and dickish, often finding themselves fights or passed out. Yep, this is the cats meow!
There’s nothing wrong with partying, but going to far overboard, while trying to meet someone will cause trouble. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Club Life, Dating Tips, Drunk
Dating
Published On: April 14th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 3 Comments
Clubbing is the fast food version of dating. There often isn’t an opportunity to know a person with great detail; you’re often menu shopping. Most, if not all of the decisions about a person at a club is based on their looks, what they are wearing, and how they are acting. With the club crowds, we man tend to look the same as some styles become similar. There are some that stick out, and for better or worse they are: guys without a shirt, sexual innuendo shirt guy, dude whose ballin’, and guys with a collared shirt. Sounds somewhat boring, doesn’t it?
Clubbing is about looks, some work, some don’t. At the end of the night you’re going to be hot and sweaty anyway, so what ever you’re wearing is going to get messed up by the end of the night. You have to make sure your outfit grabs attention while in the club, and separates you from the boring classifications. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Club Life, Mens Fashion
Dating
Published On: April 13th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 1 Comment
I was waiting at SFO for my delayed flight. I was heading back home from San Francisco, but Poseidon decided it was a great time to visit NYC and cover it with water. It was clear, this airport was going to be my home for a while. I was sitting next to a very attractive woman, and wanted to start a conversation with her, but I didn’t know how. I was awkward, shy, and decided to keep to myself. At the time I was going thru a shutterbug phase, and decided to pull out my camera and take photo’s. My first subject was a bottle of water I was playing with. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Club Life, Dating Stories, The Promoter
Single Life
Published On: April 13th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 1 Comment
Every club has crowds of singles looking for some action. Some clubs are better than others when it comes to finding potential singles, all while featuring great music. I was quite interested in the clubbing scene in NYC, and have often ventured from club to club on the weekends. From my experience, here’s a list of the clubs and party locations I highly recommend finding potential dates (or something else). [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Best Of, Club Life, Clubs, Culture Club, LQ Night Club, NYC, Pacha, Plunge, Webster Hall
Tips for Men
Published On: April 12th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 3 Comments
I’m often infuriated by the lack of respect men have for women at clubs. Call me old fashioned, but I always thing you should ask for permission before you start to grind against a woman. Let’s be honest, permission is hard to get, especially in a packed club with loud music and alcohol. You may come off as intimidated, shy, and as some men would say a “female dog.” There are some women who don’t mind if you anonymously grind against them, but not every woman enjoys this act. There are ways you can get a woman’s attention and permission to grind pelvis’ against each other, without feeling you’re loosing your masculinity. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Club Life, Things Not To Do
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