Dating Topics
Published On: July 8th, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments
Dating is a humbling process. It made me realize that I had some work to do, and bruised my ego. While dating, the realization that improvements need to be made become realized: wardrobe updates, weight loss, attitude changes are all apart of the honest realizations. It’s also often realizes that everyone may not view us the same way we view them. The problem is we often rationalize our poor decisions and other criticisms; either they didn’t understand our sense of fashion; we’re big boned; people like my attitude because I’m “being real”; and that we are perfect regardless of what anyone says. Our ego, and sense of self importance becomes the ultimate hindrance, and contributes to our dating and life success, and failures. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Be Honest With Yourself, Ego, Personal Evaluation
Dating Topics
Published On: March 11th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 2 Comments
My father once told me, I should listen to my enemies more than my friends. While my friends may be honest, they often sugarcoat the truth and tolerate my absurdities. My enemies tend to often be direct and brutally honest in their critiques. He suggested their honesty may reflect a realities closer to the truth opposed to the way I would often think about myself. In a way, it allows honesty by looking at myself thru a different set of eyes. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Tagged As: Be Honest With Yourself, Determining Flaws, Fixing Dating Flaws, How To, Personal Evaluation
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