Comments on: The Guaranteed Miss http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/ The male perspective of being single and dating in New York City Tue, 07 Sep 2010 18:15:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Jen http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-14 Jen Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:36:18 +0000 http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-14 Oh my, I hear this a lot when I ask how old a man is - “Well how old do you think I am?”. That is an instant deal breaker! If I asked a question, answer it, do not treat me like the guy at the fair who guesses age/weight for $2. I often get told I look like I am 22 or so, but I am 28. I often find that the over 30 crowd likes to use this as a response because they often think they are too old for me. Often I just say nevermind and walk away. Oh my, I hear this a lot when I ask how old a man is – “Well how old do you think I am?”. That is an instant deal breaker! If I asked a question, answer it, do not treat me like the guy at the fair who guesses age/weight for $2.

I often get told I look like I am 22 or so, but I am 28. I often find that the over 30 crowd likes to use this as a response because they often think they are too old for me. Often I just say nevermind and walk away.

]]> By: Reed http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-13 Reed Mon, 05 Oct 2009 12:43:02 +0000 http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-13 I really enjoyed reading Mr. Deep's response. I at times have done the answering a question with a question... with the same result as yours. I think you were the lucky one since obviously she was a game player. Keep writing. Like your work. I really enjoyed reading Mr. Deep’s response. I at times have done the answering a question with a question… with the same result as yours. I think you were the lucky one since obviously she was a game player.

Keep writing. Like your work.

]]> By: Single City Guy http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-12 Single City Guy Sun, 04 Oct 2009 05:40:23 +0000 http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-12 You know Mr. Deep, after reading your response and reflecting on the situation a bit more, I think your right. There's always this Dr. Jekyl, Mr. Hyde in me that makes me want to score the quick and easy touchdown, but in the long run it would probably have been a worse story. You know Mr. Deep, after reading your response and reflecting on the situation a bit more, I think your right. There’s always this Dr. Jekyl, Mr. Hyde in me that makes me want to score the quick and easy touchdown, but in the long run it would probably have been a worse story.

]]> By: Mr. Deep http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-11 Mr. Deep Sat, 03 Oct 2009 04:58:36 +0000 http://singlecityguy.com/dating/the-guaranteed-miss/#comment-11 Hey SCG, LOL thanks for all of the posts so far. Your an honest and straight forward guy who I respect and the women will definitely appreciate you as they find out more and follow your cool growing body of work. Stright forward is always the way to go. You did zero wrong and for her asking that so suddenly deserves a bitch slap even though we don't and never would hit a girl...Hot and Direct girl is unfortunately severely insecure. Never hold back from being straight up!!. If a woman is in a nuclear bomb test phase mood within the first conversation be happy it blew up in her face, not yours. If she is testing you like that now and wondering how she stacks up among the local current bar patrons now think about what she will be asking you about down the road when her true self decides to poke out of her insecure hole from "Im a psycho" hell. You were honest, she asked and got her well deserved medicine. To bad it wasn't in the form of an enema. Why did she ask? Why did she want to know what you thought of other chicks in 5 minutes flat? Yeah, if you would have lied and said nahhhh she's ugly, I only see you, sure you might have had the opportunity to bang her perm straight or introduce her to the delicious flavor of your bed post but is that what we really want as good upstanding guys alllll the time? Guys can get laid just as women can through lies and deceit daily if that's the ultimate goal, but if a girl asks a question we have the responsibility to answer it no matter what the outcome without lowering our morals to make them feel accepted or wanted. Most girls will agree, they do not want us to everrrr lie to them until thy are happily married to us and they are pregnant and ask us if they look fat after month 6. To ask a loaded question like that and react in such a way to your honest answer proves one thing....Shallow LOSERRRRRRRRRRRR. Im sure you agree now after looking back on it. Next time a girl asks you what you think about another chick in the first conversation, just have fun and beat her to the punch by saying, "Oh yeah, she's hot but my dustbuster at home sucks a way better dick than her although I shouldn't say that cause she was drunk and I was just using her. By the way honey, would you like a shot at the dustbuster title? I'll drive." and walk away as she shits and pisses herself from surprise!! She is worth nothing more if she went there with you that fast. Nothing but trouble brother....Good post and good writing...Congrats! Hey SCG, LOL thanks for all of the posts so far. Your an honest and straight forward guy who I respect and the women will definitely appreciate you as they find out more and follow your cool growing body of work. Stright forward is always the way to go. You did zero wrong and for her asking that so suddenly deserves a bitch slap even though we don’t and never would hit a girl…Hot and Direct girl is unfortunately severely insecure. Never hold back from being straight up!!. If a woman is in a nuclear bomb test phase mood within the first conversation be happy it blew up in her face, not yours. If she is testing you like that now and wondering how she stacks up among the local current bar patrons now think about what she will be asking you about down the road when her true self decides to poke out of her insecure hole from “Im a psycho” hell. You were honest, she asked and got her well deserved medicine. To bad it wasn’t in the form of an enema. Why did she ask? Why did she want to know what you thought of other chicks in 5 minutes flat? Yeah, if you would have lied and said nahhhh she’s ugly, I only see you, sure you might have had the opportunity to bang her perm straight or introduce her to the delicious flavor of your bed post but is that what we really want as good upstanding guys alllll the time? Guys can get laid just as women can through lies and deceit daily if that’s the ultimate goal, but if a girl asks a question we have the responsibility to answer it no matter what the outcome without lowering our morals to make them feel accepted or wanted. Most girls will agree, they do not want us to everrrr lie to them until thy are happily married to us and they are pregnant and ask us if they look fat after month 6. To ask a loaded question like that and react in such a way to your honest answer proves one thing….Shallow LOSERRRRRRRRRRRR. Im sure you agree now after looking back on it. Next time a girl asks you what you think about another chick in the first conversation, just have fun and beat her to the punch by saying, “Oh yeah, she’s hot but my dustbuster at home sucks a way better dick than her although I shouldn’t say that cause she was drunk and I was just using her. By the way honey, would you like a shot at the dustbuster title? I’ll drive.” and walk away as she shits and pisses herself from surprise!! She is worth nothing more if she went there with you that fast. Nothing but trouble brother….Good post and good writing…Congrats!

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