Comments on: Lessons I've Learned From Bad Sex http://singlecityguy.com/dating/lessons-ive-learned-from-bad-sex/ The male perspective of being single and dating in New York City Fri, 30 Jul 2010 13:53:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Kate http://singlecityguy.com/dating/lessons-ive-learned-from-bad-sex/#comment-295 Kate Fri, 29 Jan 2010 17:30:25 +0000 http://singlecityguy.com/?p=574#comment-295 I tend to think with sex if you put too much pressure and comparisons it just never works. If I am with a guy I try not tostick to what worked in the past but just have fun and see what works now. It always surprises me that having sex is so intimate but you can have sex with some people and they still won't tell you if they have certain preferences. Honesty and a sense of humour is really all you need - plus enthusiasm! Kate xx I tend to think with sex if you put too much pressure and comparisons it just never works. If I am with a guy I try not tostick to what worked in the past but just have fun and see what works now. It always surprises me that having sex is so intimate but you can have sex with some people and they still won’t tell you if they have certain preferences. Honesty and a sense of humour is really all you need – plus enthusiasm!

Kate xx

]]> By: aussie http://singlecityguy.com/dating/lessons-ive-learned-from-bad-sex/#comment-294 aussie Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:21:44 +0000 http://singlecityguy.com/?p=574#comment-294 the funny thing about great sex is that you think you're having it... until even greater sex comes along! The problem is, if the bar keeps getting raised, does it ever stop going up or is the sky the limit? lol Anyway, I think there are actually very, very few people who are bad at sex. Yes, some genuinely are bad, butut in my opinion the majority of bad sex is actually just a misinterpretation of incompatibility. And there is a whole lotta incompatibility goin' around! the funny thing about great sex is that you think you’re having it… until even greater sex comes along! The problem is, if the bar keeps getting raised, does it ever stop going up or is the sky the limit? lol

Anyway, I think there are actually very, very few people who are bad at sex. Yes, some genuinely are bad, butut in my opinion the majority of bad sex is actually just a misinterpretation of incompatibility. And there is a whole lotta incompatibility goin’ around!

]]> By: Miss Alpha http://singlecityguy.com/dating/lessons-ive-learned-from-bad-sex/#comment-293 Miss Alpha Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:00:10 +0000 http://singlecityguy.com/?p=574#comment-293 A lot of bad sex comes from two people just being out of sync... like a piano playing out of key. Good post :) A lot of bad sex comes from two people just being out of sync… like a piano playing out of key. Good post :)

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