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There’s a certain balance to getting a girl. The hot vs crazy chart comes to mind. :)

Sometimes we subconsciously pick people or have standards above what is truly feasible, because we’re not really ready for a real relationship or insecure and scared of real rejection. A self-fulfilling prophesy of sorts.

Having a reasonable outlook will help you find someone more suited to you, but that doesn’t mean you have to rule out the hotties.. Dating a wider variety of looks though will change your standards of what is “quality” and what is your bare minimum.. and you may find yourself surprised.

Good Luck!

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