Single City Guy

After a month of undergoing the eFlirtExpert program, you would think I would be dating the hell off my keyboard. While I’ve had a lot of success, I shared some of my thoughts with her and got a reminder that i’m contributing to the problem. The reminder was more like a kick in the ass. I’m repeating several of the same mistakes, but also creating brand new ones.

If, by the process of elimination, I’m correcting the reasons I’m single (clothing, profile, ways to approach women) and I’m still maintaining similar results, then the problem must be me. I think I’m approaching the wrong type of woman, more importantly, I think I’m taking the wrong approach. It’s an approach that dooms us men! Many men fail because we seek the unattainable. We tend to spend more time approaching super hot women than average ones regardless of our own looks (not to say I’m not cute!). Can you blame us? The problem here is that we aren’t honest with ourselves, and not honest with the type of woman we can attract. We all think we can attract the super model woman without changing anything about us. If woman’s flaw is being too picky, men’s flaws are being delusional.

Not every guy can get every girl (man does that hurt the male ego when you hear it.) It’s my biggest problem, one I’m going to have to work on to get more quality women.