Women Aren't Entitled To Anything
“Well she’s got a hotty body, but her attitude is potty/When I met her at a party she was hardly acting naughty/I said “Shorty, would you call me?”/She said “Pardon me, are you ballin’?”/I said “Darling, you sound like a prostitute pausing”/Oh so you’re one them freaks, get geeked at the sight of an ATM receipt” – OutKast – Roses
Entitled women are the worst type of women in the world to date. An entitled woman believes men should always prove their worth. They feel men should always pay for a date, call within the first two days, meet their beck and call, be a certain height, and always ask them out. Some entitlements are warranted, but most aren’t, and some go to extremes, such as gold diggers.
Entitled women often believe that men owe them something for their time. They are the pretty, pretty, princesses who should have everything given to them. Not only are these women kidding themselves, they are the worst kind of woman to date!
Women who feel entitled to everything are un-dateable. They have such a narrow classification in the type of guy they want to date, and such a narrow view on what a man should do to gain their favor. More often than not, these women are living in a fantasy world, where they are the center of everyones universe. In reality they are often the center of themselves, and aren’t worth what they believe to be worth.
Guys are fed up with the entitled woman, we have been for years. It’s in part why we fear gold diggers and why prenuptial agreements exist. We feel slighted that after paying for dates, and work hard to show were interested in a woman only to be taken for granted or have gained absolutely nothing. There should be a refund we receive for bad dates with women, because we’re often fronting the cash.
Being taken advantage of by women has made men view of women differently. Many have sought them as a means to an end, the end being sex. If women believe they are entitled to being pampered, men have begun to believe we’re entitled to something that fulfills our needs. In many cases, dating has become a business arrangement. We pay for dinner, women get naked. Men are just as entitled to sex on the first date, as women are entitled to us paying for every date. The answer should be obvious.
Women aren’t entitled to anything from a guy while dating. It’s our choice to pay for the first date, it’s our choice to call you in within two days, it’s our choice to see you again. If your not on the receiving end of these choices, maybe you’re not worth it.
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brilliantly said cutie :)
Women (and men) who feel that they are ‘entitled’ should just wake up and smell the coffee around them and realize that they are not Gods gift to mankind or womankind.
All women shouldn’t be judged just because a guy may have been jilted by an entitled type of gal .. there are a lot of us decent ones out there who are fine to split the tab and enjoy simple things like walks in the park or even going to the zoo.
I know way too many women who behave this way, and way too many men who let them. It’s about time guys took their balls back and put such women in their place.
No matter how beautiful, she’s just a chick.
In return for repopulating the universe you can and will pay for my salad. Why? Not because I’m an evil gold digger. Because you should not be lazy. Making men pay for dates is not some evil scheme. A woman wants to know the guy isn’t a pathetic loser. A girl shouldn’t want to be with some lazy cheap cheap who can’t buy a glass of wine. Women are tired of men who make the smallest effort and think they are stud of the year. Until you push a person out of your body you have no right to discuss entitlement. Men and women aren’t cut out to be friends. You split the check with your friends. Heads up: the only reason women date is to feel like a princess for five seconds of our stressful working NYC life. If you ever want to have sex make a woman feel like a princess.
That’s the sort of attitude that gets women in trouble and turns US off from them! No single woman is repopulating the universe, it takes all of you, and just for the fact that maybe, possibly, you’re possibly the mother of my children and comparing that to purchasing a salad is RIDICULOUS!
I’m not at all saying women should settle for jerks and assholes, but what I’m saying is that women shouldn’t expect men to give them a freaking diamond ring on the first date! Women so often dismiss men into thinking that our simple attempts in an early relationship mean nothing.
If this is the ONLY reason women date, then they are screwed! The point of dating ISN’T for a woman to feel like a princess, that makes us feel like some sort of servant to her needs. THAT’S disrespectful and insulting! What about your stressful working NYC lives? Or all men losers who do nothing but sit around and pick their noses all day long. Never have I said that men should disrespect women, but we’re sure as hell not putting a crown on your entitled butt on the first date.
A good boyfriend is a servant to your needs.The same can be said about a good girlfriend. We date to find someone who will spoil us rotten and never say that we are just a bit entitled.
The word “serve” is in most marriage vows for a reason. I’m not saying women should act materialistic, spoiled, and pretentious. That’s annoying in everyone. Yet, if a woman lowers her standards she becomes one of the guys. You don’t really want to be meet a woman who can burp the alphabet over beers and beat your ass at pool.
Even if it just a first date women are thinking about the future. Men fail with women whey they decide what we do and don’t deserve. Honestly, Who asked?
Think your taking a lot of what I’m saying well off base here Sara. You’re also taking somewhat cyclical. And a woman who can beat my ass at pool IS attractive.
Women fail with men when they think they deserve every thing in the world, and when they make half baked assumptions.
I almost want to gouge my eyes out after reading Sara’s comments. She is the perfect example of the sense of entitlement detailed in the article.
“In return for repopulating the universe you can and will pay for my salad.”
What a sweetheart.
I think Sara knows my Ex’s, they pretty much embodied her post, which is why they are Ex’s. Entitlement doesn’t look good on either sex.
The Entitled Woman is the woman who will rape you in divorce court. Period. Don’t expect anything different. And if you’re a man who’s in a relationship with or is married to an Entitlement Princess, it’s YOUR FAULT for being there. No one held a gun to your head. You made your own decisions. There are no victims in this game – only volunteers. Get out, learn from your mistakes, talk to other men about it, and move on.
‘Entitlement’ is really a state of mind. It is the belief that the world owes one something simply because they exist. Contingent upon this belief is a denial of personal responsibility for one’s choices. The Entitled Princess demands ‘happiness’ and ‘fulfillment,’ and it is the world’s responsibility to give it to her. If the world doesn’t give it to her, it’s the world’s (or your) fault. The Entitled Princess – incapable of self-reflection – then proceeds to blame everyone else for her ‘problems.’
As for Sara’s comments; ‘Stressed?’ It’s called WORK. Men have been dealing with it for centuries. If you can’t deal with it, step aside and make room for the big dogs. It’s not a man’s responsibility to perform stress-relief for ANY woman. As for re-populating the planet; any moron can push out a baby; it takes a real woman to be a MOTHER. And lately, I see a lot of ‘re-populators’ and very few MOTHERS.
Listen you selfish pig women. We are in a recession first of all. Money doesn’t grow at your ass an it doesn’t just happen tomorrow. It’s more like a gamble. Society is about who you know. Those chances only come by luck etc. So to think a guy is a loser because he is trying to get a job. Or climb the ladder in a job to get paid the means to live is extremely difficult today.
The only one who is a flat out loser is you pig ass, selfish women who think you should be crowed an walked down an aisle because you got a whole between your legs. Stupid cunt Sara, you think you’re worth a mans bank account when you can’t even provide for yourself? How about we turn the tables, you want dick? Pay for my food, my bills, my house, an the kids while you’re at it. Get your ass to work on time an make your boss happy in rush hour traffic. Etc etc. All because you want my dick.
If you want to be committed to someone “JUST DO IT BITCH” Marriage, religion an cash is all fake. A person who value’s each other an really loves each other is committed from day one an doesn’t need a pricey diamond ring to prove it you simple ass. I’d gladly kick your ass to the curb an hope you get run over by a car. That’s what you’re worth Sara! Enjoy! PIG!
Listen you selfish pig women. We are in a recession first of all. Money doesn’t grow at your ass an it doesn’t just happen tomorrow. It’s more like a gamble. Society is about who you know. Those chances only come by luck etc. So to think a guy is a loser because he is trying to get a job. Or climb the ladder in a job to get paid the means to live is extremely difficult today.
The only one who is a flat out loser is you pig ass, selfish women who think you should be crowed an walked down an aisle because you got a hole between your legs. Stupid cunt Sara, you think you’re worth a mans bank account when you can’t even provide for yourself? How about we turn the tables, you want dick? Pay for my food, my bills, my house, an the kids while you’re at it. Get your ass to work on time an make your boss happy in rush hour traffic. Etc etc. All because you want my dick.
If you want to be committed to someone “JUST DO IT BITCH” Marriage, religion an cash is all fake. A person who value’s each other an really loves each other is committed from day one an doesn’t need a pricey diamond ring to prove it you simple ass. I’d gladly kick your ass to the curb an hope you get run over by a car. That’s what you’re worth Sara! Enjoy! PIG!
A lot of hate on this string. My point is simple. Women want to be equal with men. Otherwise, the woman’s movement would have died out a long time ago. When a woman makes the concious choice to stay at home to raise the kids (it is the woman’s choice to do this even if the husband encourages it) then it is done so knowing full well her work-world skill sets will fall behind. The need to stay home for the children is a three-five year comitment at the most. After that the kids are in school. So, you women then have the opportunity to get back into the work force. Saying otherwise is simply fooling yourself. Yes, I do know what I’m talking about as I’ve been married for 17 years and have two daughters. So, it is no ones fault but the womans if she chooses not to do so and certainly shouldn’t be the husband’s job if they decide to get a divorce latter on.
Put even more simply, women and men are not entitled to anything from the other. We are all adults and as such are totally responsible for ourselves. It is ok to express love for one another by making sacrafices for each other, but realize those gestures are gifts and should have no strings attached. Entitled people may get an immediate gratification from their self-serving ways, but God will see it differently as he casts you into the pit on that wonderful day of judgement!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dating/mating/ marriage – they have ALWAys been a business arrangement of some sort – Even the most honest couple can’t avoid negotiating. Consciously or unconsciously, directly, indirectly, structured arrangements (dowry, prenups) or more loosely arranged as with those westerners who can’t afford prenups.
I agree with Sara – men have the power to decide what they will and won’t provide. What they will and won’t put up with. That’s as it should be. In return – they DO NOT need to decide what I as a woman ASK for!
well, i think i’m not as traditional as i could be, but the first date thing kind of bugged me. I confess i would not go on a second date with a guy who didn’t get the check. I’m no princess, but i think both sides have to make each other want to date. I have paid for movies and stuff a few times, but none of the guys i’ve dated left me pay for a date without fighting it a little.
I don’t expect the guy i date to pay for everything all the time, but it feels a little off when someod asks you out and you get the check. It’s not because they are the guy, but more like they asked you out in the first place, right?