Personality is VERY Important but…

I came across Moxie’s recent post about personality and looks on “…And That’s Why Your Single” and could not help but to write a response post after reading some of the comments. Women, let me be honest, we look with our eyes first, but you do the same damn thing. Moxie is completely correct when she says:

like all of us, has pushed aside someone with the great personality because they didn’t do it for her in the looks department. How many of us have blown someone off without even giving them a chance just because that initial spark was there, despite the fact that had “a great personality.”

How do I know? I’ve been passed up for a better looking guy with the personality of a doornail. If there’s any consolation, I’ve been told that relationship lasted only two weeks.

Being attractive does help grab a person’s attention, personality seals the deal. Successful relationships are built on how interested you are in your partner. Interest is the combination of looks and personality. Being attractive is the best way to get a person interested, it’s bait. To maintain that interest you must have matching personalities, is the hook. Contrary to popular belief, it’s not all about big boobs, nice legs and big butts. Many women benefit from them and for some it’s their only redeeming quality.

Women are judged by their looks, this includes your outfit. Here you have control in displaying your personality. We place women into categories when we look at their outfits. If you look like a whore, we’re going to think your a whore. This may be great if your looking for a one-night stand; if you are by all means find the most attractive person in the room, show as much skin as you can and have fun!

If your looking to attract a quality guy, the best way to reflect some of your personality in your wardrobe! Think about it, our personalities aren’t written on our forehead, they are reflected in the way we dress. Women, no matter what you do, you are going to be judge by how you look, so give us a hint.

One last note, women, please don’t pretend you don’t do the same exact thing! Your not any less innocent than we are when it comes to judging by looks.