Not All Men Are Looking for A Booty Call

We’re all not looking for booty calls and someone to keep the bed warm at night. The least we’re seeking is a person we can trust and have continued sexual relations. The key component here is trust, which means we must like you and have some commitment to you. Women should understand men have a very different relationship with sex than women. For us there’s less risk involved. If something goes wrong, we don’t have to deal with a nine-month pregnancy and possibly raising a kid for the next 18 years. That sort of risk women generally don’t take with some random guy or a person they really don’t know. It’s a hell of a risk!

Sex is very important to men in relationships. If we can’t satisfy a woman sexually, we feel humiliated and useless. It’s almost as bad as forgetting birthday’s, anniversaries, or specific information. We like to share sex with our partner, if they enjoy it, we enjoy it. In some ways it’s a way of showing women how much we want you and aim to please you. We prefer to do this with the same partner, someone who really gets us excited and we are willing to commit to that person on more than just a sexual level. While sex may be important, the personality of the woman we’re with ranks higher.

This is the opposite information women are given about men, that’s because you’re choosing the wrong type of guy! If you keep on finding men who want booty calls and you want more, find a different type of guy! Women, you change shoes, clothing, and jewelry instantly if it doesn’t fit you, why not do the same with the type of man your seeking? A majority of men aren’t looking for booty calls, your just finding the wrong type of guy.

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