Comments on: Confident Women Are Sexy

By: Amy

Amy — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 03:06:20 +0000

So where are these guys who like confident girls? I was recently told by a guy that he would have liked me more had I not been a tough girl.

Thanks for writing this post… reminds me to keep my chin up and keep looking!

By: Dazediva

Dazediva — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 09:06:25 +0000

Like the Dating Diva and Mikael, I’m glad you’ve pointed this out. I think I will send this to some of the men I know. Maybe it’ll drop a hint at them.

Some men I know are not comfortable with my confidence levels – and they end up taking it in a negative manner. I try not to cross that line of confidence vs arrogance and should that be the case – it’s always in a private joke form as opposed to out in public.

Luckily my guy mates actually understand this – so I suppose I just have to find a boyfriend who can get it too !

By: Mikael

Mikael — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 17:32:42 +0000

Again, thanks for addressing this! I agree with Dating Diva that there is a fine line and trying to not cross it. I’m trying to be better at approaching guys, but it’s still nerve-wrecking–yet worth it! =)

By: Dating Diva

Dating Diva — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 06:05:59 +0000

I am so glad you said this. I am very confident and my sister introduced me to a guy who did not like this at all. I guess in a sense, he took me as cocky. I think there is a fine line and I try hard not to cross it, and if I do, I make sure it is pretty clear that I am kidding around.

A few weeks ago I wrote a post about getting a second date being all about confidence. I’m glad you reconfirmed this for me.