Archive for category Question for Women
Do Women Seek One Night Stands?
Posted by Single City Guy in Question for Women on January 24, 2010
There’s a theory that only men go out to have sex. Yet in today’s modern, post-feminist world, I’m finding many examples where women tend to be the aggressor when it coes to seeking sex. I know women think about sex, as much if not more than men. What about seeking sex? I’ve often wondered if women seek one night stands, and how often? Enjoying them is quite a different question.
Would You Date Your Good or Best Guy Friend?
Posted by Single City Guy in Question for Women on January 14, 2010

I’m finding more and more women tend to date their good friends or the best friends. Often they don’t end up in a relationship immediately, but over time reconsider the guy as a potential dating partner. Many men like to think they have a chance with their cute female friends. I often consider I continue to have a chance with them, although I’m never really holding out hope. Many movies show women who’ve ignored an unassuming guy, as he turns into the love of their life. I’m not sure if this is truly the case, but it begs the question. Would you date your good or best guy friend?
Feel free to participate in the poll, open for a week, and add additional comments below.
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What Do Women Look at First When They Receive a Message on A Dating Website?
Posted by Single City Guy in Question for Women on January 7, 2010
I’m finding myself in a bit of a quandary. I believe women are receiving great messages from one on OkCupid, but aren’t responding to them. Messages by my dating coach and myself seem to have the same results. They do seem to be visiting my profile. While the message seems good enough to gardner some attention, they aren’t good enough for a response. I’m trying to figure out what the problem is here.
My thought is women may be looking at my profile first before the message, or reading the message than the profile to see if it’s worth responding to. So the question I have for women is this: when you received a message do you read the message first or view the profile first?
Women, feel free to answer the poll below or leave comments below.
Question for Women: What Should We Shave?
Posted by Single City Guy in Question for Women on November 2, 2009

Men are taught that our facial hair is an important part of our grooming. It can make us attractive (or not) and portray a sense of personality. We’re taught to shave by our fathers, the same way they were taught by their fathers. We have more than facial hair to deal with and ignore the conversation surrounding shaving our parts. It’s clear women have strong opinions about men shaving. The question I have is, do women expect men to shave and trim? Which is preferred, clean shaven or trimmed? Is there any other body hair (back hair, chest hair, underarm hair) that men should also shave or trim? Women, please provide your thoughts in the comments section below.


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