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Women often ask their male friends, “Why do guys love [insert sexual activity here] when it comes to the bedroom?” The response we give women range from “I don’t know we just do, why do you love shoes?” to a blank stare as if you were a Martian from a different planet. The fact is, there are some facts as to the way we think about sex. You don’t have to understand them, you just have to know them. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
I hate to tell you ladies, one of the biggest reasons we don’t call you, is because you’re not memorable. You may think you’re memorable, or that you should be the person every guy flocks to; but the truth my hurt more than you would like it to. Who cares if you have great legs, large breasts, and a killer figure; if there’s no sustenance to it all, who cares? Think to the dates you’ve enjoyed yourself and had a great time and everything seemed to be going well. At the end of the date he promises to call, and never does. Why? He could be extremely busy, but if he never, ever, contacts you again, it’s because he’s moved on. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Last night, entire cities were rejected for Miami by a certain “King”. While LeBron didn’t become a member of my beloved Knicks, it made me wonder “How Do You Handle Rejection?” Thomas Edwards, posted a YouTube video about this very same subject yesterday. I want to piggyback on his comments in a more in depth manner and from a prospective; rejection is always hard to handle. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Dating is a humbling process. It made me realize that I had some work to do, and bruised my ego. While dating, the realization that improvements need to be made become realized: wardrobe updates, weight loss, attitude changes are all apart of the honest realizations. It’s also often realizes that everyone may not view us the same way we view them. The problem is we often rationalize our poor decisions and other criticisms; either they didn’t understand our sense of fashion; we’re big boned; people like my attitude because I’m “being real”; and that we are perfect regardless of what anyone says. Our ego, and sense of self importance becomes the ultimate hindrance, and contributes to our dating and life success, and failures. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
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Many women believe by showing up to a date, they are guaranteed a second date with the same person. However, showing up and having a conversation with your date, doesn’t guarantee a second date. If anything, you’re barely performing the minimum requirements for a date. Sitting across from a person and having a conversation doesn’t mean you’ve interacted. You’ve asked questions, he’s asked questions, and the date has turned into a job interview with food or drinks. You’re not leaving a memorable impression, instead you’re leaving a very sour and bland impression.
While getting to the first date is great, to guarantee a second or third date, you must make a memorable impression. Something that will separate you from the other women he’s dating. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Sex, like anything else, is about experimentation, where much of it happens with another body, or thru watching porn. However, in an age where there’s enough STDs to turn anyone celibate, and increasingly unrealistic porn; alternatives must exist that provide the same experimentation without any of the risks. Enter the many virtual worlds, social networks, and IM clients that can be used for sexual exploration. Yes, we’re talking about cybersex. Cybersex provides the most of the mental exploration and can help improve your real life sexual experiences. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
Fact: you’re replaceable in the bedroom. In the dating and relationship world, we all over think about sex. Elephants, monkeys and cockroaches all have sex, but I don’t see any elephant porn, monkeys on poles, or blogs about spicing your sex life in the cockroach motel. We analyze sex to the point that we forget a simple fact; we can easily be replaced! You’re skill between the sheets doesn’t secure your place in the bedroom. Regardless of your sexual talents, there’s always someone better, more detailed and willing to do things you may not have an interest.
Don’t get m wrong, sex is great, but it gets old. Especially when it is the basis of a relationship. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
I’m not the most experienced person when it comes to sex, I was a virgin until about 25. Since then, women weren’t lining up to get naked and show me the ropes. Every so often I would enjoy the company of a naked women between the sheets, but not often enough to call myself a sexual master, there was still much to learn.
When I was younger, my cousin explained to me that sex wasn’t a guaranteed orgasm. She once told me, “sometimes it happens early, late, right on time or not at all. But that’s okay!” This message was re-enforced by one of my best friends, who keeps reminding me that, “sex gets better each time you have it! Every time I have sex with my boyfriend, it gets better and better.” It wasn’t until recently, that I understand the point everyone was trying to make. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
In some recent conversations on Twitter, It became clear that I should highlight the reasons men do not call. One of the first reasons is possibly the most obvious, we live hectic lifestyles. That’s not to say women don’t live busy and hectic lives, but this post isn’t about the reasons women don’t call.
Often, when I’ve not called a woman, it was often due to the clutter and chaos in my life. I didn’t intentionally mean not to call her, but if I had to choose between working to pay the bills or calling a woman, she’s going to have to wait. Often calling her would be put off so long, it didn’t may any sense to call. Many of us figure, if we don’t call in three or four days, we may be out of luck. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
A week ago I was on the train heading to work, and I saw something very interesting, an older white man in a suit with his woman cuddling on the train. This may seem like something that isn’t post worthy, many couples cuddle with one another on the train. You may even begin to develop a mental image of some guy in his 50‘s with a woman holding hands and cuddling. Normal PDA stuff, which I agree isn’t anything to dedicate a blog post to.
What they were doing wasn’t very interesting, who they were was. While the man seemed like he was heading to some sort of corporate meting, the woman was completely different from what I would have assumed he would be with; she was a slightly younger Asian woman in casual clothes which revealed her many tattoos. The image in my mind was that he was a business man and she was an artist. My first thought when I saw them; “Awesome!” [Read The Rest Of This Entry]
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