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Maybe You’re Not As Awesome As You Think
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on March 11, 2010
My father once told me, I should listen to my enemies more than my friends. While my friends may be honest, they often sugarcoat the truth and tolerate my absurdities. My enemies tend to often be direct and brutally honest in their critiques. He suggested their honesty may reflect a realities closer to the truth opposed to the way I would often think about myself. In a way, it allows honesty by looking at myself thru a different set of eyes. Read the rest of this entry »
When Should You Consider Exclusivity?
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on March 10, 2010
SCG: I know this isn't a dating picture, per say, but it's a cool design from a clothing company!
Here’s a great question I’ve recently had to handle. When do you become exclusive with the person you’re dating? There isn’t a 20 date minimum to exclusivity, it’s more innate than that, it’s a feeling. That may be a “cop out” answer, but it’s the only logical answer.
There comes a point while dating that you know it’s time to give up on seeing anyone else. It’s when the thought of dating another person doesn’t feel right, where you don’t have any interests in another person. It’s also when that feeling isn’t forced upon you but develops naturally. Read the rest of this entry »
Women Must Respect Men
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on March 9, 2010
There are common themes that emerge when I read many other dating blogs, women taking their hostility out on men. We’re often reminded why men are jerks, horrible assholes, and why a guy isn’t suited for female standards. This stems from the perceived notion that women aren’t finding their perfect guy, and slamming men for the bad decisions in men they date. This is an ultimate sign of disrespect, almost as if women don’t think a good, valuable guy exists for them. Read the rest of this entry »
Women Aren’t Entitled To Anything
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on March 8, 2010
“Well she’s got a hotty body, but her attitude is potty/When I met her at a party she was hardly acting naughty/I said “Shorty, would you call me?”/She said “Pardon me, are you ballin’?”/I said “Darling, you sound like a prostitute pausing”/Oh so you’re one them freaks, get geeked at the sight of an ATM receipt” – OutKast – Roses
Entitled women are the worst type of women in the world to date. An entitled woman believes men should always prove their worth. They feel men should always pay for a date, call within the first two days, meet their beck and call, be a certain height, and always ask them out. Some entitlements are warranted, but most aren’t, and some go to extremes, such as gold diggers.
Entitled women often believe that men owe them something for their time. They are the pretty, pretty, princesses who should have everything given to them. Not only are these women kidding themselves, they are the worst kind of woman to date! Read the rest of this entry »
Ideas For A Great Third Date
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on March 5, 2010
The third date is an important step in the dating process. At this point of dating someone, it’s generally known whether you’re interested in seeing the same person for a longer, or not at all. Usually, the first two dates include some form of drinks and food, but the third date should stand out from the rest. It should be unique from the previous dates, and something that will set you apart from any other individuals she may be dating.
There are plenty of good third date activities, and I believe it should last more than an hour and include a hint of intimacy. By the third date you should have kissed the person your dating, if that’s not the case, something is wrong. Heading to either your or her apartment to make out isn’t a bad idea to consider as a part of the date, but maybe after the actual date had ended. The date should begin with something that would lead to an intimate moment.
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Men Feel They Must Be In Control
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on February 19, 2010
We men have the need to feel as if we’re in control of any situation. It’s what we’re taught when we’re young, it’s how we’re raised, it’s what society tells us. We are reminded, often, we are to take the lead. When a situation arises, it feels as if it’s a guys duty to ensure all is under control. We’re taught to take the lead, and it’s something we believe women expect. In many cases they expect the same as well. Women expect us to ask them out on a date, they expect us to pay for the first date, they expect us to make the move. The pressure, assertiveness and control is very much in our court.
The post-feminist modern women has a very different outlook on this scenario. They want to be in control (having been controlled for so long), they want a piece of this power that men have had for centuries. They want their say. This causes plenty of conflicts for many reasons, first control isn’t always about decision making and second, women want us to be in control, they want a man. Read the rest of this entry »
Exploring How Dating Differs In Other Cities
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on February 17, 2010
Each city is unique onto themselves. I’m born and raised in NYC and can only talk about the dating scene here, which is quite different from the scene in D.C. or Miami. Every resident of their city knows the quirks of their cities dating life. In NYC, everything seems to be very fast paced, and leads to instant gratification. It may differ from Vegas where everyone seems to want gratification. Very soon, we will have a first hand account of these differences as dating blogger @SingleGalNYC is embarking on an eight week dating tour. Read the rest of this entry »
How To Survive A Singles Valentine’s Day
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on February 14, 2010
Valentine’s Day is one of the most loved and hated days in the year. While it’s an opportunity for couples to express their like (or love) for one another, many people despise the day and the idea. I’ve never hated Valentine’s Day, because I feel you don’t have to be with someone to enjoy the day. Hell, there are plenty of ways to survive Valentine’s Day by remaining completely single.
To begin surviving Valentine’s Day, you must not be bitter. Valentine’s Day is like any other day. Say for instance, your friends wedding anniversary happens to be on the 8th of April. Are you going to be bitter to your friend because they are going to celebrate their anniversary every year on the same day? Taken Valentine’s Day in the same light, some people are going to celebrate it with their significant other. Instead of being bitter, aim for a day that you’re doing the same thing with someone you like. Read the rest of this entry »
Making A Great Valentines Day Playlist
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on February 12, 2010
When I was younger, making a mixtape was one of the best gifts to give a girl on Valentine’s Day. It was thoughtful, required timing, creativity, and hours of planning. Days were spent waiting for a particular song to play on the radio to add it in your “perfect” collection of music. Today’s world of iTunes and pre-made Valentine’s Day Playlists has diluted the art of a “mixtape.” I believe it’s a great Valentine’s Day gift, if done right. It requires some thought, effort, and a willingness to be a bit cheesy. Read the rest of this entry »
Answering The Frisky’s 50 Questions For Men
Posted by Single City Guy in Dating Topics on February 12, 2010
Popular blog, The Frisky, covered a survey launched by Esquire for the American Woman. For every woman who answers the survey, Esquire would donate $1 to the Haiti Relief Fund. In turn, The Frisky created their own 50 questions for men they would answers from ASAP. I figured, I would thrown my own answers to their questions, although some of them are purely foolish. Read the rest of this entry »
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