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February, 2011

Dating

The Complexities of Interracial Dating – The Backlash From Your Own

A man, depressed, alone, sitting on a skateboard

This month I’ve touched on some of the complexities of interracial dating. The most complex issue to interracial dating is handling the feedback from your own. When Jungle Fever came out in the 90′s, it presented one of the biggest difficulties behind blacks and whites dating each other: the perception from your own community. Comments like “they are taking all the good ones,” or that someone is a Oreo” are far to common when a black male dates a white woman. While it’s more accepted now, there’s still levels of anger, resentment, and even criticism when a black male dates someone outside of their ethnicity. Many times his character is judged by his own.

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Updates

Weekly Recap: Feb 20 – 27th, 2011

Welcome to the Single City Guy weekly recap for February 20th – 27th, 2011. This week began a new, recurring co-blogging myth busting segment, a mix of tips for both men and women, and a response to an inflammatory Wall Street Journal article. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Sports & Entertainment

Weekend Watching: The Oscars

Oscars Statue

It’s hard to ignore this weekends grand event, The Oscars. As someone who’s an amateur film critic, The Oscars is the signature awards show. The Oscars has many elements, and many women are going to pay attention the outfits of the the red carpet. I, for one, am more interested in the winners for the show, and wonder if the hosts will use Ricky Gervais’ comedic suggestions. The beauty of the Oscars, is you get to choose who will and why. So here are my winners of the top 5 categories. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Dating

Places To Meet Women, That Don’t Include The Bar

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It seems, guys forget one important fact to meeting women. They are everywhere. They are on the street, on the train, on the bus, in cars, in planes; they are in cafe’s, at the buffet, and quite possibly walking your way. Poor rhyming scheme aside, the point is, it’s not hard to find a woman. Men need to think outside of the bar or the club as the only places to meet one. The reason it seems easy to meet women at a bar, is because it’s a comfortable environment, with very little expectations. To best meet women, you need to begin with an environment you’re comfortable with. There’s many comfortable spaces that don’t involve the bar, here’s a few I suggest.

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Sports & Entertainment

We Dare: Swinger Parties With Your Wii

Video games and sex isn’t a new concept. We all have played that Dead or Alive beach volleyball game. Reputable game developer, Ubisoft, is pushing the envelop a bit further. We Dare is a “Sexy Party Game” that invites players to kiss, spank, and even strip. The point of the game, invite a group of friends together and see what happens. This takes the term “playing with the Wii” to a different level. I wonder how many people are going to grab this game, and try it with their “friends”?

The game is real, and slated for an European release later this year. For more information, check out Kotaku’s coverage of the game.

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Dating

Do You Think You Look Like A Celebrity?

 

Most of us can’t date a celebrity, but we can always date their celebrity look-alike. Match.com posted a few celebrity look-alikes on their blog today (only if some of them lived in the NYC area), but made me wonder, how many people think they look like a celebrity? I’m often told I look like Lionel Richie (some have even said Kanye West, which I don’t) How about you? Do you look like a celebrity? If so, list who that celebrity is in the comments.

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Lifestyle

The Rise Of Women Haven’t Turned Men Into Boys

Women pointing to a professionally dressed man

The big gender story this week, was Kay S. Hymowitz’s excerpt from her upcoming book “Manning Up: How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men Into Boys“, on the Wall Street Journal. The title of the article was “Where Have The Good Men Gone?” Kay states the modern young man lives an extended childhood, pre-adulthood she dubs, due to the rise of the professional young women. The cities examples such as men’s college graduations rates in their 20′s and early 30′s as compared to women and the ages men and women are getting married are older than in the past. Her shining example of the differences between the young modern man and woman, is the movie Knocked Up. In the movie Seth Rogan’s character is more of a slacker, continuing to enjoy an extended adolescence, compared to Katherine Heigl’s character who’s on her way up in the business world.

Kay Hymowitz’s point, as titled by the book, is that men are lost. They don’t know what to do with their lives, because women are becoming more prominent forces professionally and socially. This point, like this article, is another bomb in the continued gender war between man and women. While there are some legitimate points made by Hymowitz’s, I strongly disagree that the rise of women are keeping men in a pre-childhood status. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Dating

Does Your Bank Account Matter To Women?

A woman holding a was of 20 dollar bills.

Gold Diggers exist. These are women, who are only attracted to men only for their luxury. It doesn’t matter how nice, kind, and caring you may be, if you aren’t being driven in a Mayback, you should get back. I don’t believe this type of woman is the norm. Not every woman is attracted to men for their wallets. Some recent stats challenge this position. According to the results of Match.com, “Singles In America” study, 35% of women surveyed say that a partner who makes as much money as they do, is a must have or very important trait. In comparison, only 12% of the men have indicated this as an important quality.

If you were to look at these numbers on the surface, they indicate that women are “gold diggers”, but that’s jumping very quickly to inaccurate conclusions.

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The City

Upcoming Show Looking For a Few Good Men [Casting Call]

Yesterday, I got a last minute message from the head of casting and talent at VPE: Vinnie Potestivo Entertainment, asking if any of my male friends would be willing to be casted in an upcoming show. I wanted to extend the invitation to my male readers. Here’s the information:

The Dating Club

The Dating Club is a new show centered around a social networking membership-only group based in NYC and DC. Half of the show will follow the matchmaker who started the company, and the other half will feature a group of 12 members as they go on a group date organized by our matchmaker. During the group date, she will observe the interaction and chemistry of the members and pair them up for potential one-on-one date to happen the next day.

If you’re a male and interested, send an e-mail to the TheDatingClub@vinniep.com. Casting ends on Thursday at 3pm. Good luck!

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Dating

Myth: Men Want Sex More Than Women

Man and woman cuddled in bed, with only legs and feet showing

Do men really want sex more than women? This post aims to answer the question by providing three points of views, the male perspective (written by Single City Guy), the female perspective, (written by Jocelyn Wentland, MSc, Human Sexuality Researcher from the University of Ottawa), and what her research, among others, has to say on the issue. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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