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June, 2010

Dating

Cybersex Can Improve Your Sex

Published On: June 29th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 1 Comment

Sex in bed with a computer

Sex, like anything else, is about experimentation, where much of it happens with another body, or thru watching porn. However, in an age where there’s enough STDs to turn anyone celibate, and increasingly unrealistic porn; alternatives must exist that provide the same experimentation without any of the risks. Enter the many virtual worlds, social networks, and IM clients that can be used for sexual exploration. Yes, we’re talking about cybersex. Cybersex provides the most of the mental exploration and can help improve your real life sexual experiences. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Dating

Relationships Turn Into Unexpected Happiness

Published On: June 24th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 6 Comments

Intimate moment with a couple, in the ocean

I lied to myself when I began dating. When I started SCG, I was looking for something casual, mainly because I wanted to dip my feet into the dating pool to see what was there. I hadn’t dated for a long time, and I wanted to put into practice what I believed dating to be. I also felt I wasn’t ready for a long term, committed relationship with a woman. By this time I figured a post like this would include my stories of a series of short-term relationships, where I would have learned the most about myself opposed to when I was single.

I was wrong. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Dating

Fight For Him Before He's Taken

Published On: June 23rd, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments

Two women about to fight

Chris Rock is 100% correct. When you’re single, women don’t give a damn. They seem more interested in becoming friends than date. The moment they realize you have a girlfriend, their attitude changes completely, suddenly women you thought weren’t interested become interested. It’s a logic I’ve never completely understood, but it makes me want to create a shirt for single guys that says, “I’m taken! Come date me!”

In the past few weeks, I can’t help the feeling that I’m living Chris Rock’s joke. I’ve been hit on at bars, on the train and several women have done a complete 180 after failed dating attempts. I was shocked most recently by a series of comments from a woman that made a few things clear: she was interested in me in the past and now that I’m taken, she’s jealous. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Fashion & Style

Dude, maintain your wardrobe!

Published On: June 17th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 1 Comment

Button up shirts

A key to dating is having a good wardrobe. Women look at our clothing and determine if we’re a good match by it. Not keeping tabs of fashion or wearing the same worn shoes or jeans to every date makes you less attractive to the opposite sex.

Women do a better job at maintaining their wardrobe than men. While I don’t get their need for having a million shoes and dresses, there is some method to the madness. Women often tweak their wardrobe, every so often the take a shopping trip to see what’s available and what they like. What I’ve learned from this is, I need to periodically visit my wardrobe and add to it. This applies to every aspect of my wardrobe, including my underwear.

If there’s any lesson my male readers should pay attention to, this is it! [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Dating

The Club Girl

Published On: June 15th, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments

I don’t remember when this happened, but I had finished reading The Game and was ready to put what I’ve learned into practice. I’ve been clubbing frequently, and figure it would be a perfect chance to see if what I’ve learned actually works. I often when with friends to Crobar, (now M2 Ultra Lounge). Often, my friends would end up with someone at the end of the night and I would be heading home alone. Tonight I hoped to change this trend.

I was nervous but confident. My uncertainty about my probably for success didn’t hinder my eagerness to try. Determined, I approached women throughout the night with a vigor I hadn’t had in the past. Some advances worked, others did not, but I was never undeterred to try again. In the end, I thought, it was all practice. However, in reality, I wanted to end up with a woman, naked. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Dating

Sex Is Great, But It Gets Old

Published On: June 9th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 3 Comments

An empty bed

Fact: you’re replaceable in the bedroom. In the dating and relationship world, we all over think about sex. Elephants, monkeys and cockroaches all have sex, but I don’t see any elephant porn, monkeys on poles, or blogs about spicing your sex life in the cockroach motel. We analyze sex to the point that we forget a simple fact; we can easily be replaced! You’re skill between the sheets doesn’t secure your place in the bedroom. Regardless of your sexual talents, there’s always someone better, more detailed and willing to do things you may not have an interest.

Don’t get m wrong, sex is great, but it gets old. Especially when it is the basis of a relationship. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Lifestyle

Girlfriends Don’t Solve Life’s Problems

Published On: June 9th, 2010 by Single City Guy | No Comments

Math formula in neon lights

I’ve always assumed, that moment I would have a girlfriend, most of my life problems would disappear. As if that final missing cog to make my life perfect was a girlfriend, who cared and supported me. Boy, was I ever wrong, and naive! However, I can’t help to notice several other of my friends feel this way, mainly men who have hit a dry spell. We often think, “the minute we meet someone great, everything will be okay.” Reality check, it won’t.

Girlfriends don’t solve life’s problems. Take some of my recent infrequent blog posts as an example of this. Life continues, work continues, needing to pay bills continues, and what ever position you were in before the girlfriend, you’re going to be there with her as well. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Dating

You Don’t Have To Orgasm Every Time

Published On: June 8th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 4 Comments

Legs spread wide open, on a couch

I’m not the most experienced person when it comes to sex, I was a virgin until about 25. Since then, women weren’t lining up to get naked and show me the ropes. Every so often I would enjoy the company of a naked women between the sheets, but not often enough to call myself a sexual master, there was still much to learn.

When I was younger, my cousin explained to me that sex wasn’t a guaranteed orgasm. She once told me, “sometimes it happens early, late, right on time or not at all. But that’s okay!” This message was re-enforced by one of my best friends, who keeps reminding me that, “sex gets better each time you have it! Every time I have sex with my boyfriend, it gets better and better.” It wasn’t until recently, that I understand the point everyone was trying to make. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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Reviews

Wingman University Aims To Teach You How To Date Better

Published On: June 8th, 2010 by Single City Guy | 1 Comment

Wingman University

My good friend, and dating coach, Thomas Edwards was one of the reasons I was able to find recent dating success. As a guy, he was able to put everything I was being taught into prospective and helped me gain the confidence to succeed in dating situations. Thomas is a great dating coach, his techniques enabled me to remain as myself, I didn’t have to change who I was to approach a woman. While I highly recommend his services as The Professional Wingman, he recently introduced a three-day dating seminar aimed at helping men with women, called Wingman University. [Read The Rest Of This Entry]

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