Women Aren't Entitled To Anything

Published On: March 8th, 2010 by Single City Guy | Comments/Trackbacks: Comments, or trackback allowed.

Men handing their money and credit card over to women

“Well she’s got a hotty body, but her attitude is potty/When I met her at a party she was hardly acting naughty/I said “Shorty, would you call me?”/She said “Pardon me, are you ballin’?”/I said “Darling, you sound like a prostitute pausing”/Oh so you’re one them freaks, get geeked at the sight of an ATM receipt” – OutKast – Roses

Entitled women are the worst type of women in the world to date. An entitled woman believes men should always prove their worth. They feel men should always pay for a date, call within the first two days, meet their beck and call, be a certain height, and always ask them out. Some entitlements are warranted, but most aren’t, and some go to extremes, such as gold diggers.

Entitled women often believe that men owe them something for their time. They are the pretty, pretty, princesses who should have everything given to them. Not only are these women kidding themselves, they are the worst kind of woman to date!

Women who feel entitled to everything are un-dateable. They have such a narrow classification in the type of guy they want to date, and such a narrow view on what a man should do to gain their favor. More often than not, these women are living in a fantasy world, where they are the center of everyones universe. In reality they are often the center of themselves, and aren’t worth what they believe to be worth.

Guys are fed up with the entitled woman, we have been for years. It’s in part why we fear gold diggers and why prenuptial agreements exist. We feel slighted that after paying for dates, and work hard to show were interested in a woman only to be taken for granted or have gained absolutely nothing. There should be a refund we receive for bad dates with women, because we’re often fronting the cash.

Being taken advantage of by women has made men view of women differently. Many have sought them as a means to an end, the end being sex. If women believe they are entitled to being pampered, men have begun to believe we’re entitled to something that fulfills our needs. In many cases, dating has become a business arrangement. We pay for dinner, women get naked. Men are just as entitled to sex on the first date, as women are entitled to us paying for every date. The answer should be obvious.

Women aren’t entitled to anything from a guy while dating. It’s our choice to pay for the first date, it’s our choice to call you in within two days, it’s our choice to see you again. If your not on the receiving end of these choices, maybe you’re not worth it.

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Tagged As: #NoOffense, Entitled Women, Gripes, Understanding Men

http://dazedreflection.blogspot.com Dazediva
brilliantly said cutie
Women (and men) who feel that they are ‘entitled’ should just wake up and smell the coffee around them and realize that they are not Gods gift to mankind or womankind.
All women shouldn’t be judged just because a guy may have been jilted by an entitled type of gal .. there are a lot of us decent ones out there who are fine to split the tab and enjoy simple things like walks in the park or even going to the zoo.
http://datedaily.com/ DateDaily
I know way too many women who behave this way, and way too many men who let them. It’s about time guys took their balls back and put such women in their place.
No matter how beautiful, she’s just a chick.
Sara
In return for repopulating the universe you can and will pay for my salad. Why? Not because I’m an evil gold digger. Because you should not be lazy. Making men pay for dates is not some evil scheme. A woman wants to know the guy isn’t a pathetic loser. A girl shouldn’t want to be with some lazy cheap cheap who can’t buy a glass of wine. Women are tired of men who make the smallest effort and think they are stud of the year. Until you push a person out of your body you have no right to discuss entitlement. Men and women aren’t cut out to be friends. You split the check with your friends. Heads up: the only reason women date is to feel like a princess for five seconds of our stressful working NYC life. If you ever want to have sex make a woman feel like a princess.

Single City Guy
That’s the sort of attitude that gets women in trouble and turns US off from them! No single woman is repopulating the universe, it takes all of you, and just for the fact that maybe, possibly, you’re possibly the mother of my children and comparing that to purchasing a salad is RIDICULOUS!
I’m not at all saying women should settle for jerks and assholes, but what I’m saying is that women shouldn’t expect men to give them a freaking diamond ring on the first date! Women so often dismiss men into thinking that our simple attempts in an early relationship mean nothing.
the only reason women date is to feel like a princess for five seconds of our stressful working NYC life.
If this is the ONLY reason women date, then they are screwed! The point of dating ISN’T for a woman to feel like a princess, that makes us feel like some sort of servant to her needs. THAT’S disrespectful and insulting! What about your stressful working NYC lives? Or all men losers who do nothing but sit around and pick their noses all day long. Never have I said that men should disrespect women, but we’re sure as hell not putting a crown on your entitled butt on the first date.

Sara
A good boyfriend is a servant to your needs.The same can be said about a good girlfriend. We date to find someone who will spoil us rotten and never say that we are just a bit entitled.
The word “serve” is in most marriage vows for a reason. I’m not saying women should act materialistic, spoiled, and pretentious. That’s annoying in everyone. Yet, if a woman lowers her standards she becomes one of the guys. You don’t really want to be meet a woman who can burp the alphabet over beers and beat your ass at pool.
Even if it just a first date women are thinking about the future. Men fail with women whey they decide what we do and don’t deserve. Honestly, Who asked?

Single City Guy
Think your taking a lot of what I’m saying well off base here Sara. You’re also taking somewhat cyclical. And a woman who can beat my ass at pool IS attractive.
Women fail with men when they think they deserve every thing in the world, and when they make half baked assumptions.

Joe B.
I almost want to gouge my eyes out after reading Sara’s comments. She is the perfect example of the sense of entitlement detailed in the article.
“In return for repopulating the universe you can and will pay for my salad.”
What a sweetheart.
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I think Sara knows my Ex’s, they pretty much embodied her post, which is why they are Ex’s. Entitlement doesn’t look good on either sex.
metalman
The Entitled Woman is the woman who will rape you in divorce court. Period. Don’t expect anything different. And if you’re a man who’s in a relationship with or is married to an Entitlement Princess, it’s YOUR FAULT for being there. No one held a gun to your head. You made your own decisions. There are no victims in this game – only volunteers. Get out, learn from your mistakes, talk to other men about it, and move on.
‘Entitlement’ is really a state of mind. It is the belief that the world owes one something simply because they exist. Contingent upon this belief is a denial of personal responsibility for one’s choices. The Entitled Princess demands ‘happiness’ and ‘fulfillment,’ and it is the world’s responsibility to give it to her. If the world doesn’t give it to her, it’s the world’s (or your) fault. The Entitled Princess – incapable of self-reflection – then proceeds to blame everyone else for her ‘problems.’
As for Sara’s comments; ‘Stressed?’ It’s called WORK. Men have been dealing with it for centuries. If you can’t deal with it, step aside and make room for the big dogs. It’s not a man’s responsibility to perform stress-relief for ANY woman. As for re-populating the planet; any moron can push out a baby; it takes a real woman to be a MOTHER. And lately, I see a lot of ‘re-populators’ and very few MOTHERS.
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Mark
Listen you selfish pig women. We are in a recession first of all. Money doesn’t grow at your ass an it doesn’t just happen tomorrow. It’s more like a gamble. Society is about who you know. Those chances only come by luck etc. So to think a guy is a loser because he is trying to get a job. Or climb the ladder in a job to get paid the means to live is extremely difficult today.
The only one who is a flat out loser is you pig ass, selfish women who think you should be crowed an walked down an aisle because you got a whole between your legs. Stupid cunt Sara, you think you’re worth a mans bank account when you can’t even provide for yourself? How about we turn the tables, you want dick? Pay for my food, my bills, my house, an the kids while you’re at it. Get your ass to work on time an make your boss happy in rush hour traffic. Etc etc. All because you want my dick.
If you want to be committed to someone “JUST DO IT BITCH” Marriage, religion an cash is all fake. A person who value’s each other an really loves each other is committed from day one an doesn’t need a pricey diamond ring to prove it you simple ass. I’d gladly kick your ass to the curb an hope you get run over by a car. That’s what you’re worth Sara! Enjoy! PIG!
Mark
Listen you selfish pig women. We are in a recession first of all. Money doesn’t grow at your ass an it doesn’t just happen tomorrow. It’s more like a gamble. Society is about who you know. Those chances only come by luck etc. So to think a guy is a loser because he is trying to get a job. Or climb the ladder in a job to get paid the means to live is extremely difficult today.
The only one who is a flat out loser is you pig ass, selfish women who think you should be crowed an walked down an aisle because you got a hole between your legs. Stupid cunt Sara, you think you’re worth a mans bank account when you can’t even provide for yourself? How about we turn the tables, you want dick? Pay for my food, my bills, my house, an the kids while you’re at it. Get your ass to work on time an make your boss happy in rush hour traffic. Etc etc. All because you want my dick.
If you want to be committed to someone “JUST DO IT BITCH” Marriage, religion an cash is all fake. A person who value’s each other an really loves each other is committed from day one an doesn’t need a pricey diamond ring to prove it you simple ass. I’d gladly kick your ass to the curb an hope you get run over by a car. That’s what you’re worth Sara! Enjoy! PIG!
Bruc
A lot of hate on this string. My point is simple. Women want to be equal with men. Otherwise, the woman’s movement would have died out a long time ago. When a woman makes the concious choice to stay at home to raise the kids (it is the woman’s choice to do this even if the husband encourages it) then it is done so knowing full well her work-world skill sets will fall behind. The need to stay home for the children is a three-five year comitment at the most. After that the kids are in school. So, you women then have the opportunity to get back into the work force. Saying otherwise is simply fooling yourself. Yes, I do know what I’m talking about as I’ve been married for 17 years and have two daughters. So, it is no ones fault but the womans if she chooses not to do so and certainly shouldn’t be the husband’s job if they decide to get a divorce latter on.
Put even more simply, women and men are not entitled to anything from the other. We are all adults and as such are totally responsible for ourselves. It is ok to express love for one another by making sacrafices for each other, but realize those gestures are gifts and should have no strings attached. Entitled people may get an immediate gratification from their self-serving ways, but God will see it differently as he casts you into the pit on that wonderful day of judgement!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just a woman
Dating/mating/ marriage – they have ALWAys been a business arrangement of some sort – Even the most honest couple can’t avoid negotiating. Consciously or unconsciously, directly, indirectly, structured arrangements (dowry, prenups) or more loosely arranged as with those westerners who can’t afford prenups.
I agree with Sara – men have the power to decide what they will and won’t provide. What they will and won’t put up with. That’s as it should be. In return – they DO NOT need to decide what I as a woman ASK for!
l.i.
well, i think i’m not as traditional as i could be, but the first date thing kind of bugged me. I confess i would not go on a second date with a guy who didn’t get the check. I’m no princess, but i think both sides have to make each other want to date. I have paid for movies and stuff a few times, but none of the guys i’ve dated left me pay for a date without fighting it a little.
I don’t expect the guy i date to pay for everything all the time, but it feels a little off when someod asks you out and you get the check. It’s not because they are the guy, but more like they asked you out in the first place, right?
j.l.
As an American man, I’m glad I did not have to suffer and get involved in these sick games most fat stuckup dysfunctional and moody American women play. After being “taken” many times, I finally resorted to porn and masterbation. American women are not worth the time, trouble, hazzle and legal repercussions.
Today I have my own house paid for, a sizable savings account, and plenty of time to travel the world and date foreign women whom are approachabl and appreciative and treat me with respect. I feel sorry for the rest of you guys who feel needy and can’t focus on other things in life.
GUYS, stop flirting and approaching these women. Their not worth it!
Sara Pudding and Pie
Childbirth is mere circumstance; not a skill, not a gift, not exclusive, and not even self contained. You still can’t do it without a man.
You’re not special for being able to bear children and you won’t be admired for it.
Mo
Such a great article… It goes for both men and women aren’t entitled!! I completely agree and you’re right on target!!! A lot of women need to quit expecting and feel as though just because they are woman they are entitled!! These women that have the entitlement syndrome mostly are the brats that never have grown up, think that everything should be just handed to them on the silver platter, they think daddy is always going to be there whenever she falls down no matter what and will come and always wipe her a**.
A lot of these women that have the entitlement syndrome also think since they are a lady they should be treated all the time like a princess and men should constantly buy them gifts. It’s the once in awhile gestures/surprises that count.
Another thing that I think a lot of women have gotten out of hand with is EXPECTING the first date to be this “perfect” glamorous, flawless, ride off into the sunset first date as in she wants him to have this (perfect/flawless conversation, not be nervous one bit and she wants to be able to tell if either 1. he’s the one right away or 2 if he’s dating material within like 2 or 3 minutes of the first date) or these women that have this HUGE OVERLY “EXPECT” “LIST” on the first date want to get up in like 2 or 3 minutes and throw this temper tantrum, cry and bitch because in her mind he wasn’t (excuse us) “perfect” and forgive us he was “gasp” nervous. Get over yourself!!! There is no such thing as “perfect”… What the hell do you expect women….. Yes both men and women should obviously have lists but but the women that have the 70, 80 page requirements she has to get rid of the SUPERFICIALS. Yes both men and women naturally get nervous especially when you meet each other for the first time and were not going to just poof just know exactly what to say and have this “perfect” conversation… You (the lady) are not going to know either exactly what to talk about. Men hate it with women that have these overly huge exceedingly big SUPERFICIAL expectations and makes us all that much more nervous because we know that if she’s one of them (overly expectant) with the OVERLY HUGE EXPECTATIONS and we say the slightest wrong thing, have the slightest pause in the conversation she’s going to jump from her seat within like 2 or 3 minutes of the 1st date, start bitching, going to the bathroom and calling her girlfriends. Just quit it with so much expectations and RELAX!!! Women with the overly huge expectations just makes men run and believe us we men catch on to that BS real quick and makes us so much more nervous, shuts us down and it will make him run faster than you know what to do…. He will bolt if you come with overly high expectations that he has to be perfect on the first date!!! It takes TIME (more than likely more than ONE date) to get to know someone and there aren’t many men/if any at all that have the “perfect conversation” immediately (that’s mainly just TV crap).
E
I exactly agree with Single City Guy’s comment “I’m not at all saying women should settle for jerks and assholes, but what I’m saying is that women shouldn’t expect men to give them a freaking diamond ring on the first date! Women so often dismiss men into thinking that our simple attempts in an early relationship mean nothing.”
“If this is the ONLY reason women date, then they are screwed! The point of dating ISN’T for a woman to feel like a princess, that makes us feel like some sort of servant to her needs. THAT’S disrespectful and insulting! What about your stressful working NYC lives? Or all men losers who do nothing but sit around and pick their noses all day long. Never have I said that men should disrespect women, but we’re sure as hell not putting a crown on your entitled butt on the first date.”
Women have gotten out of hand with the thinking that the FIRST DATE has to be this all PERFECT FIRST DATE!! Some of these women want and think they can tell if he’s the one or if he’s datable within like 90 seconds or 3 minutes of the first date. It’s like with these women they come off with this attitude of expectant and they have this aura about them that says he better be PERFECT as in (he can’t be nervous and she wants him to have this flawless conversation)!!
Ok women it’s time to wake up from your fantasy la la imagination and get into REALITY!! Both men and women are going to be nervous, he’s not going to have a PERFECT conversation neither is she (both he and she aren’t going to know exactly what to say) and it’s not going to be magical fairy tale date and he and she automatically fall in love, he give her a ring right away and they get married!!! Complete BS!! Dating takes TIME and that means more than likely more than ONE date!!! Geeze women if men did and expected the women to be PERFECT and did all this to women all hell would break loose!!! It’s no wonder so many women constantly go home banging their head against the walls after dates, these women are setting themselves up for disappointment and their standards are way too high!!
It makes men not even want to try or put any effort into the date because men are afraid that all she’s going to do is throw her temper tantrum, pout, get up from the table, stomp off to the bathroom, call and bitch to her friends.
Hzzz
Sara way to go, using sex as a weapon of mass manipulation just makes you a prostitute. You pay or I no sexy… What else does that sound like? A sex worker. The threat to every entitled women. An entitled women is a prostitute that gets paid a lot more.
I pride myself paying and being a provider to a humble effeminate girl, but when a girl gets some attitude it is really the result of them never being beaten in their life. Men know there is a certain line they cant cross without getting a face punch. Women don’t have a line and it causes critical amounts of calamity.
BOTTOM LINE
The easiest way to enslave a populous is to entitle them. It will forever own them. The government riled up women and black people to make money for itself through the courts and abuse industry.
Men, tread lightly, get smart, make money and go find a foreign women. B.T.W. Man Diego has THE WORST women. Camp Pendelton, 29 Palms, Miramar, and all the other military bases have pumped the city up to 52% men and it has made the already shallow Socalers despicable misandrists.
Earl
“We feel slighted that after paying for dates, and work hard to show were interested in a woman only to be taken for granted or have gained absolutely nothing.” This is so true and even more so these days even within the last 5 to like 7 years a lot of women have gotten much worse as in more and more women have this entitled, nose up in the air and a lot of the times do the disgust ugh sound.
It’s no wonder a lot of men throw their hands in the air , and are like why then put much of any effort into planning and making a nice date, or are extremely nervous about taking women out on first dates cause a lot of women have this completely false fantasy first date idea. A lot of women these days have this false fantasy idea that the man on a first date should be this “perfect” date (nothing is “perfect” in the world) but anyways men are so nervous on first dates with a lot of women because they have these ENORMOUS, huge, PIE IN THE SKY first date expectations as in (he has to have this “perfect” flawless conversation, he has to know exactly what to say, she wants the date to be this and this and that, he better do this blah blah blah.
Men are nervous that a lot of women on first dates want’s to tell if either he’s dating material or “the one” in like the first 3 to 5 or so min of the first date or she want’s to get up from her chair start bitch*ng, crying, complaining. Seriously women what the he** do you bring to the table? SERIOUSLY???? What makes you so dam* special????? A lot of women also need to stop it with the “average men” negativity and the I won’t settle BS!!! You hear it a lot these days, men are tired of women giving the “average man” a bad rap and are like no no no with the “average man”. You yourself are “average” so women get over yourself inflated self!!
FRANCIS
women are all whores
sorry to say
it’s the truth
just live with it
men don’t need a wife or girlfriend
most of us do just fine sticking a new one here and there
foreign women make much better brides anyway
they might be gold-diggers, too
at least they are hotter gold-diggers that know how to cook

Single City Guy
I really disagree with you here. Women aren’t all whores! That’s going pretty harsh, and definitely not in the direction of this post.

Lurker
It’s your choice-Exactly. If it’s not your choice, simply say you don’t believe in paying for the entire date or just don’t call. The girl will get your point and move on.
My recent ex had accused me of being entitled in terms of dinner dates, but I feel I have reciprocated my fair share in terms of buying him stuff back (concert tickets, movie tickets, drinks, letting him use my car and gas, household stuff, etc). I even offered to pay him back if he feels that I’m so entitled. He said no. He said he just doesn’t like the idea of me having a traditional courtship view with the implication that a woman can reciprocate or treat from time to time.
That’s fine. We have two different views and decided not to be with each other.
Collegefootballplayer
Women do feel entitles. Every last one of them. For a woman to say she doesnt expect a guy to pick up the tab on the 1st date, is a LIE. For a woman to say she doesnt expect a guy to hit on her, and ask her out, is a LIE!! I play colege ball, model, and wrestle. Im 6ft1 235lbs. Im in great shape, typical wrestler football build. I get hit on by hot women all the time, not going to front. Women do offer to buy me things, take me places, etc only because i’m considered “hot” and i play college ball and college wrestling and am doing well. So i dont deal with the typical cant get a date, only had 1 or 2 ho girls ever talk to me syndrome that most guys deal with. However, women still are quite snobby in that the finest ones only talk to me because of looks and stature. I want a down to earth woman, even if it means she isnt the prettiest. Women are so stuck up, if guys would realize that if you stopped chasing, this script would flip completely. Women would chase, because of the lack of attention (which they all need so badly, even happily married women just crave attention from any guy to make them still feel sexy and unwanted. But guys are too desperate. Control yourselves men, and dont deal with snobby princesses, and we will control women. Plain and simple .However, i will add, i have a gf and am happy with her, she pays for things, so do i, 50/50 is how it has to be. I feel like a king, and her queen, and we respect each other in the meantime.
John
Women feel entitled because they are taught to be.
If a man is down and out financially, his friends teach him how to cut expenses and get a second job.
If a woman is down and out financially, her friends teach her how exploit the government for free money and services, and how to maximize support and extras from their ex’s.
LR
Sorry but that’s the way it is in American society. Women should act like women and men should act like men. No role reversal allowed. And if a woman wants a man to get naked or calls him, he slaps her in the face for good to put her in her place. It’s a man’s role to be in control and have a lot of money while women ignore him.
SSG
I find it amusing that men think women are so entitled. All around me, I often hear men stating that if they’re going to pay for dinner, they better get sex at the end of the evening. If that isn’t the very definition of entitled, I don’t know what is. Granted, there *are* entitled women out there, however, they’re hardly in the majority. You guys would have better luck meeting quality women if you shifted your own expectations a bit and dated women outside the “smoking hot” category. You get shallow and entitled because that’s who you choose to date. Stop whining.
And honestly, why is there so much argument over who pays? The person who asks for the date pays for it. Simple.
To commenter Mark: You will be jerking off alone the rest of your life with that attitude. Calling women (especially women you don’t know) “cunt” and “bitch” will get you absolutely nowhere. Learn some respect.
I am an American woman who no longer finds American men attractive. The majority I have met have been picky, whiny, overly-entitled (there’s that word again), porn-addicted losers. They don’t respect women and they certainly don’t know how to have a conversation with them. Most of them are married to their jobs and have zero personality. That’s why I’m marrying a intelligent, funny and respectful Brit. He loves me just the way I am. His sexy accent is just the icing on the cake.
You all can keep on with the hostility and vitriol but at some point, you’re going to have to realize the problem actually lies with YOU.
Have a nice day.
MAN MAN
Sara You don’t need a man. Please don’t chose one because you will just damage a person.
Isn’t about be a man or a woman enjoy to enslave a servant!
It is just enjoy be cruel.
You are a sadistic cold blody and I hope you will have to see your son be enslave and humiliated from a woman like you. And when he will be completely miserable and unhappy after he lose all is dream and sensitivity maybe divorce the witch and go broke.So I can remember what a beautiful life he spend just because mother nature give him sexuality.
I have see in my life men feel like kind in my early age and insult the wife for the not well done dinner. That men was just feel like a king after a day in the farm.
I know story of people that abuse them partner for the same feeling… just primitive.
I always find it horrible. In the hystory human were capture slave because usefull and because power. I hope we learn sometingh from the horrible mistake made in the pas to get to the civilization.
vshake
So true!

Single City Guy